Who has greater desire for sex, girls or boys? Who has more sexual fantasies during a day and night, girls or boys?

well if person looks sleepy during the day, then you have your victim. lol jk

well if person looks sleepy during the day, then you have your victim. lol jk
What exact time are you (girls) sleepy during the day? :morning:

What exact time are you (girls) sleepy during the day? :morning:
1-3 pm :)

Who has greater desire for sex, girls or boys? Who has more sexual fantasies during a day and night, girls or boys?
I don't exactly know how proper this question is, but those of you that are definitely curious, I believe watching "She is Out of Control" will help. A guy thinks about it more than a thousand times in one hour... so you can imagine who has stronger desires/thoughts about it.

1-3 pm :)
lol. I thought you get sleepy during the night.

lol. I thought you get sleepy during the night.
I get sleepy during many periods of the day... :innoc04:

Just kidding :happy65:

I get sleepy during many periods of the day... :innoc04:
Unbelievable!

Unbelievable!
LOOL, you know me......Im a scorpio :)

I heard that guys definately fit more into the realm of fantasizing and being sexually active more than girl. Just look at the men in Manhttan looking up and down at women and girls with a scrumptus appetite as though they want to ease their starvation.

Just look at the men in Manhttan looking up and down at women and girls with a scrumptus appetite as though they want to ease their starvation.

Yeah, just look at what those women and girls are wearing or rather not wearing and you'll understand. :happy05:

Yeah, just look at what those women and girls are wearing or rather not wearing and you'll understand. :happy05:
true that! yesli oni sami pokazevayut, pochemuzhe mushchinam ne smotretz... :innoc04:

What exact time are you (girls) sleepy during the day? :morning:

no, that's not what i meant. I meant if a girl is sleepy during the day,that means she stayed up whole night thinking about sex. So at this point it does not matter, at wht time girls are sleepy, during the day.

I heard that guys definately fit more into the realm of fantasizing and being sexually active more than girl. Just look at the men in Manhttan looking up and down at women and girls with a scrumptus appetite as though they want to ease their starvation.

It's healthy to have the apetite. It's just may not be proper to always act on it, especially if the one you're hungry for is not your gf/bf/wife/husband/or other individuals that fit the criteria. :D

Okay, enough with this sleepiness BS. It has nothing to do with the question at hand.

Definetly men most of the time due to testosterone which is a sexually stimulating hormone that both males and females have. Certain females with slightly elevated levels might have a stronger sexual appetite than others. Same with men.

I can tell you this though, most guys who have lots of body hair and male pattern baldness tend to have stronger appetites due to high free testosterone levels and faster conversion to DHT which causes the hair loss.

This can also be applied to certain females :D

I heard that guys definately fit more into the realm of fantasizing and being sexually active more than girl. Just look at the men in Manhttan looking up and down at women and girls with a scrumptus appetite as though they want to ease their starvation.
honestly i found that mostly guys in manhattan pay attention at guys... but if you go to brooklyn that's another story.

honestly i found that mostly guys in manhattan pay attention at guys... but if you go to brooklyn that's another story.

Very funny! :happy65:

honestly i found that mostly guys in manhattan pay attention at guys... but if you go to brooklyn that's another story.
Hon, that phrase did not make sense to me....what are you talking about?

Hon, that phrase did not make sense to me....what are you talking about?
shosh, if you go to the city you will realize that most men look at men b/c they like men and not women. is that more clear???

shosh, if you go to the city you will realize that most men look at men b/c they like men and not women. is that more clear???
aaaaaaaaa.....blin, I am slow these days..... :sad17:

I have read in many material that woman have higher sexual desires. Men just can get arose in about 2-6 sec, but woman its different.

I have read in many material that woman have higher sexual desires. Men just can get arose in about 2-6 sec, but woman its different.
Ok, a woman can get aroused by anything.....and it does not have to be related to men..... I know woman that can sit in a lecture hall and get aroused looking at the ceiling......
I have to agree with Executive about the levels of hormones in the body....Males and Females can get equally aroused or have sexual tendecies....The way they physiologically and psychologically percieve sex is different. You may be surprized, but men and women have different neurological mechanisms to motivation of sex. females curcuit of sexual motivation goes thru the Amygdala, which is the center of emotion in the brain. The male curcuit bypasses that center, making it a pure physiological attribute.
sorry for the small lecture....

Ok, a woman can get aroused by anything.....and it does not have to be related to men..... I know woman that can sit in a lecture hall and get aroused looking at the ceiling......
I have to agree with Executive about the levels of hormones in the body....Males and Females can get equally aroused or have sexual tendecies....The way they physiologically and psychologically percieve sex is different. You may be surprized, but men and women have different neurological mechanisms to motivation of sex. females curcuit of sexual motivation goes thru the Amygdala, which is the center of emotion in the brain. The male curcuit bypasses that center, making it a pure physiological attribute.
sorry for the small lecture....

lol, are you bio major or just like to read alot?

lol, are you bio major or just like to read alot?
Im Psychology (emphasis on neurophysiology) major.

Im Psychology (emphasis on neurophysiology) major.


Very interesting.

Ok, a woman can get aroused by anything.....and it does not have to be related to men..... I know woman that can sit in a lecture hall and get aroused looking at the ceiling......
I have to agree with Executive about the levels of hormones in the body....Males and Females can get equally aroused or have sexual tendecies....The way they physiologically and psychologically percieve sex is different. You may be surprized, but men and women have different neurological mechanisms to motivation of sex. females curcuit of sexual motivation goes thru the Amygdala, which is the center of emotion in the brain. The male curcuit bypasses that center, making it a pure physiological attribute.
sorry for the small lecture....
I don't really agree, but it is only my perception of it...
If he/she is busy doing things, then their thoughts will not lead into such direction, and they won't get their hormones going.
However, I read that when two people look into one another's eyes the thought of hmmmmm... occurs, especially with guys.

I don't really agree, but it is only my perception of it...
If he/she is busy doing things, then their thoughts will not lead into such direction, and they won't get their hormones going.
However, I read that when two people look into one another's eyes the thought of hmmmmm... occurs, especially with guys.

I applaud you on your enlightened and spiritual view of this, however most people are primitive animals with no such concepts. Therefore I completely agree with Shoshy. Perhaps you have more of a purer soul??

I don't really agree, but it is only my perception of it...
If he/she is busy doing things, then their thoughts will not lead into such direction, and they won't get their hormones going.
However, I read that when two people look into one another's eyes the thought of hmmmmm... occurs, especially with guys.
I would really have to disagree.....What you are talking about is the "myth" of being attracted....However, attraction is a pure Physiological response to pheromones and other factors.....what you "feel" when you look at each other's eyes is the consequence of your physiological agreement to have sex with that person (it is our innate mechanism to reproduce....). Your body and mind come to a conclusion that you can succesfully reproduce with that person....what comes later is your consience and debate of whether you actually would want to or not....Thats with guys and girls, but more with guys.

I don't really agree, but it is only my perception of it...
If he/she is busy doing things, then their thoughts will not lead into such direction, and they won't get their hormones going.
However, I read that when two people look into one another's eyes the thought of hmmmmm... occurs, especially with guys.


The kabbala even says that woman are more arose.

The kabbala even says that woman are more arose.

Most women are more AFFECTIONATE, however, most MEN simply want to get laid as often as possible with as many partners as possible.

Most women are more AFFECTIONATE, however, most MEN simply want to get laid as often as possible with as many partners as possible.

Speaking in education sense, woman have limited egg per months. However, men have millions of sperms. This concept fits into a puzzle of having many wives.

Most women are more AFFECTIONATE, however, most MEN simply want to get laid as often as possible with as many partners as possible.
Thank you!!!!!!! That was exactly the point I was trying to make..... :happy65:

I think we went off the topic a little. We started talking about who thinks (fantasizes) about sex more, and ended with who is more arroused. I believe those are 2 separate concepts.

As far as sexual desire (who is more aroused), if you look medicaly, men and women for some reason peak at different ages. Most men are at the height of their sexual desire in the late teens and early 20s, whereas women want it more later in life, in their late 30s and 40s, or closer to menopause.

As far as who thinks (fantasizes) about sex too much, I honestly believe that both men and women fantasize at some level. The things they think about may be different, but sexual fantasies are natural way of life, and are equally common in both men and women.

This is not to say that women want sex at the same level as men. This goes back to the theory of evolution, and we can easily see why men want to have sex with any women that is still alive, whereas women are more picky. I think this was discussed in another thread.

I think we went off the topic a little. We started talking about who thinks (fantasizes) about sex more, and ended with who is more arroused. I believe those are 2 separate concepts.

As far as sexual desire (who is more aroused), if you look medicaly, men and women for some reason peak at different ages. Most men are at the height of their sexual desire in the late teens and early 20s, whereas women want it more later in life, in their late 30s and 40s, or closer to menopause.

As far as who thinks (fantasizes) about sex too much, I honestly believe that both men and women fantasize at some level. The things they think about may be different, but sexual fantasies are natural way of life, and are equally common in both men and women.

This is not to say that women want sex at the same level as men. This goes back to the theory of evolution, and we can easily see why men want to have sex with any women that is still alive, whereas women are more picky. I think this was discussed in another thread.

Vot molodets :). Your very open minded and rational, not to mention an intelligent young man. I can tell by reading all of your previous posts. :)

I think we went off the topic a little. We started talking about who thinks (fantasizes) about sex more, and ended with who is more arroused. I believe those are 2 separate concepts.

As far as sexual desire (who is more aroused), if you look medicaly, men and women for some reason peak at different ages. Most men are at the height of their sexual desire in the late teens and early 20s, whereas women want it more later in life, in their late 30s and 40s, or closer to menopause.

As far as who thinks (fantasizes) about sex too much, I honestly believe that both men and women fantasize at some level. The things they think about may be different, but sexual fantasies are natural way of life, and are equally common in both men and women.

This is not to say that women want sex at the same level as men. This goes back to the theory of evolution, and we can easily see why men want to have sex with any women that is still alive, whereas women are more picky. I think this was discussed in another thread.
:happy65: :happy65: :happy65:

shosh, if you go to the city you will realize that most men look at men b/c they like men and not women. is that more clear???

you probably go to the wrong part of city

Ok, a woman can get aroused by anything.....and it does not have to be related to men..... I know woman that can sit in a lecture hall and get aroused looking at the ceiling......
I have to agree with Executive about the levels of hormones in the body....Males and Females can get equally aroused or have sexual tendecies....The way they physiologically and psychologically percieve sex is different. You may be surprized, but men and women have different neurological mechanisms to motivation of sex. females curcuit of sexual motivation goes thru the Amygdala, which is the center of emotion in the brain. The male curcuit bypasses that center, making it a pure physiological attribute.
sorry for the small lecture....

I'm sure that it's not the ceiling that arouses her, but may be the thoughts that run through her head. Of course fantasizing about making love to a ceiling might be one of those thoughts, if that's what you had in mind.

I'm sure that it's not the ceiling that arouses her, but may be the thoughts that run through her head. Of course fantasizing about making love to a ceiling might be one of those thoughts, if that's what you had in mind.
All I was saying was that women can aroused from very little insignificat things.....

All I was saying was that women can aroused from very little insignificat things.....


I disagree. I think the reason that, it takes for women longer to get aroused than for men, is because women are NOT so easily aroused by little and especially insignificant things. Yes from the side/to somebody else it might seem like something little and insignificant, but to her it might mean the world. In other words, I don't see how she can get aroused by insignificant things. Also, another aspect that might show another side of this. I don't know how accurate this is, but those few that I have heard talk about it, said this, "Men don't get romantically/emotionally involved when they cheat"--> this might mean they don't need much to get aroused, as long as they see before them all the physical aspects of their partner that they find attractive. However, "when women cheat they get emotionally involved"--> so that might mean, something more than just little insignificant things attracts her. I hope I'm making sense. :)

I applaud you on your enlightened and spiritual view of this, however most people are primitive animals with no such concepts. Therefore I completely agree with Shoshy. Perhaps you have more of a purer soul??
i am working on my soul...

Also, another aspect that might show another side of this. I don't know how accurate this is, but those few that I have heard talk about it, said this, "Men don't get romantically/emotionally involved when they cheat"--> this might mean they don't need much to get aroused, as long as they see before them all the physical aspects of their partner that they find attractive. However, "when women cheat they get emotionally involved"--> so that might mean, something more than just little insignificant things attracts her. :)
You are making perfect sense becuase this is exactly what I was talking about in my previous posts......that women have an emotional attribute to sex which men don't.

The kabbala even says that woman are more arose.
provide the text please if that is possible.

Most women are more AFFECTIONATE, however, most MEN simply want to get laid as often as possible with as many partners as possible.
thank you! i agree.

Speaking in education sense, woman have limited egg per months. However, men have millions of sperms. This concept fits into a puzzle of having many wives.
I disagree about the concept of having many wives.

you probably go to the wrong part of city
maybe

I disagree about the concept of having many wives.

Good for you. :) And im not here to prove anything. :happy65:

TheSpiritualOne, where did your post go? ;) I read it already.

Good for you. :) And im not here to prove anything. :happy65:
i didn’t really ask you to prove anything code9, i only stated my response.
i believe in the ultimate love between two people, which has to be sincere to the very end. i find it absurdity that men should have many wives...
When God created Eve for Adam, He gave him a single woman, one helper that was a piece of him...
prosto muzhchini reshili obnaglet' i sozdali drugiye zakoni... i think they went a bit over the border line.

i didn’t really ask you to prove anything code9, i only stated my response.
i believe in the ultimate love between two people, which has to be sincere to the very end. i find it absurdity that men should have many wives...
When God created Eve for Adam, He gave him a single woman, one helper that was a piece of him...
prosto muzhchini reshili obnaglet' i sozdali drugiye zakoni... i think they went a bit over the border line.

I think you should write a book about romance. While men will make the laws. :kiss2:

I think you should write a book about romance. While men will make the laws. :kiss2:
as a matter of fact i am writing a romance. though i still believe that men should adhere to the laws of their Creator.

I think you should write a book about romance. While men will make the laws. :kiss2:
LOLOL......

i didn’t really ask you to prove anything code9, i only stated my response.
i believe in the ultimate love between two people, which has to be sincere to the very end. i find it absurdity that men should have many wives...
When God created Eve for Adam, He gave him a single woman, one helper that was a piece of him...
prosto muzhchini reshili obnaglet' i sozdali drugiye zakoni... i think they went a bit over the border line.

Good point. :happy65: If, as many males like to argue that God wanted men to have many wives and approved it, he would have created more than one woman, when he created his first male.

Good point. :happy65: If, as many males like to argue, God wanted men to have many wives and approved it, he would have created more than one woman, when he created his first male.


Thats why he created sooo much girls, and isnt it a happiness when a baby boy is born . Because that is limited edition. :innoc04:

Thats why he created sooo much girls, and isnt it a happeniness when a baby boy is born . Because that is limited edition. :innoc04:

limited edition? It depends on (whatever it is that makes that decision). May be limited edition in one family, but not in all. When my aunt and her husband had two sons, and when she was pregant with their 3rd child, her husband was desperate for a girl. They have three sons now. Not so limited. hehehe. My father's parents had 4 boys and 4 girls.

limited edition? It depends on (whatever it is that makes that decision). May be limited edition in one family, but not in all. When my aunt and her husband had two sons, and when she was pregant with their 3rd child, her husband was desperate for a girl. They have three sons now. Not so limited. hehehe. My father's parents had 4 boys and 4 girls.

Well yep, he would be desperate because for such limited edition we need a good helper.

Well yep, he would be desperate because for such limited edition we need a good helper.

lol hehehe, you are very detemined...:) ok you can have this one. heheheh

lol hehehe, you are very detemined...:) ok you can have this one. heheheh

Thanks for the permission. :love25:

Good point. :happy65: If, as many males like to argue that God wanted men to have many wives and approved it, he would have created more than one woman, when he created his first male.

Maybe because the male needed atleast one female on the planet to begin reproducing?? Now since we have so many males and females, we can have orgies and produce as many children as G-d wants :D. lol

No but seriously, this is all speculation people....

I don't exactly know how proper this question is, but those of you that are definitely curious, I believe watching "She is Out of Control" will help. A guy thinks about it more than a thousand times in one hour... so you can imagine who has stronger desires/thoughts about it.

You wrong, a busy person doesn't have time to think about such things all day. Those who have a lot of spare time usualy do this, doesnt matter if you are a male or femal. Tak shto in each gender est' svoi ozabochenie. :love70:

I don't exactly know how proper this question is, but those of you that are definitely curious, I believe watching "She is Out of Control" will help. A guy thinks about it more than a thousand times in one hour... so you can imagine who has stronger desires/thoughts about it.

When I asked the question, "Who has more sexual fantasies during a day and night, girls or boys" I intended that people respond from their personal experience and not just site some research from different sources as a book or a movie. I want that girls talk about their own experience and boys about their own. I want to know how girls’ fantasies are different from boys'. You don’t necessary need to talk about your own fantasies, as long as you talk about people you know from your own sex.

Also from scale 1 to 10, 1 being sexually not interested at all and 10 being a sexual maniac, how bad do you want to have sex.

When I asked the question, "Who has more sexual fantasies during a day and night, girls or boys" I intended that people respond from their personal experience and not just site some research from different sources as a book or a movie. I want that girls talk about their own experience and boys about their own. I want to know how girls’ fantasies are different from boys'. You don’t necessary need to talk about your own fantasies, as long as you talk about people you know from your own sex.. lol "from your own sex"? What if I don't have sex, not to even mention the people from it? :D:D:D


yea, yea, I know what you meant.

Also from scale 1 to 10, 1 being sexually not interested at all and 10 being a sexual maniac, how bad do you want to have sex.


lol, do we have to be honest? I think i was on the scale of 9-10 when i was 16.5-20 years old. then it went in the range of 3-6 until 23years of age.
And now that I am a month away from my 24th bd I'm feeling a bit frustrated. But then again, I dont think it has to do with me wanting to have sex. I think it has to do more with emotional need to have someone close:cerenad:, and everything that comes with it, on that level. :conf:

lol, do we have to be honest? I think i was on the scale of 9-10 when i was 16.5-20 years old. then it went in the range of 3-6 until 23years of age.
And now that I am a month away from my 24th bd I'm feeling a bit frustrated. :conf:
I was on scale 7-8 when I was 5-13 years old. Scale 9-10 for age between 13 and 20. Now that I am 21 I am on scale of 21. Oops I broke the scale. HEHEHE.

I think it has to do more with emotional need to have someone close:cerenad:, and everything that comes with it, on that level. :conf:
You know........I can give you emotional support. We can hold hands and tell stories to each other. We can be best friends. But no sex.

I can't measure my urges based on age ranges. I can say that for me 3 factors influence them for me:

Physical vitality - being physically fit, working out, phsyically active, general health etc.

Emotional State - being in love or lack of relationship (loneliness sometimes creates perverted urges, and the glory of being in love suppresses impure thoughts and cravings)

Access to sex itself - the more access the less desire with time, the less access the more the desire increases with time.

But thats just me :).