Do all men cheat, on their girlfriends/wives, when an opportunity presents itself?

Do all men cheat, when an opportunity presents itself?
I never cheat. I study for my exams really hard.

I never cheat. I study for my exams really hard.

try answering that my question again. :D

Mr. smart... lol

try answering that my question again. :D

Mr. smart... lol

OK. I will stop cheating on you by half as much as you deserve because I know half of you half as well as I should like, only if you understand twice as much as what I understand in what I am trying to say.

OK. I will stop cheating on you by half as much as you deserve because I know half of you half as well as I should like, only if you understand twice as much as what I understand in what I am trying to say.
What????????? :conf:

Yes all men cheat!...and that i speak from experience. I guess one woman is never enough for them. HISTORY speaks for itself. ALL MEN CHEAT!...
But then again so do women!...at least when they are not married...I think kids keep women occupied when they are married and they don't have time to think about other men....while men...well you take a guess...

i would never certainly cheat if i was with someone, it is pointless, stupid, immmoral, no respect for human being whatsoever.

i would never certainly cheat if i was with someone, it is pointless, stupid, immmoral, no respect for human being whatsoever.

what would you do if your g'f or wife doesn't satisfy you?

hmm we all arent perfect so i would just trust her for what she is. if she doesnt satisfy me i would tell her we are compatible, thats doesnt mean i will cheat tough.

I think it is a bit cynical to think that everyone cheats. I bet everyone has the temptation to cheat, but not everyone succumbs to it. The strong ones persevere :).

and just because your significant other does not satisfy you that is no excuse.

thats where communication comes in....

i would never certainly cheat if i was with someone, it is pointless, stupid, immmoral, no respect for human being whatsoever.

That is a very strong answer. However, there is something called desire. It might happen not because you want it, but accidently. But again, accidents don't happen. So a person must have a very strong self-control of himself and the situation.

The question of cheating. Cheating in classroom is bad... very baddd, dont it do again :love70:

Ok girls will love this one: If a person met his soulmate he will not flirt or cheat on his spouse. (This is according to kabbala). That is why we see in the Torah, that if a husband finds out that his wife has cheated. He must divorce her (It's a MUST) even if he forgives her.. Since they are not soulmates and they have to get a divorce.

how come the same does not apply to the man (about MUST divorce)?

how come the same does not apply to the man (about MUST divorce)?

Because a man can have more than one wife according to the Torah. However, this rule was removed by ashkenizic division since many wifes caused problems. Some sephardic people that still live in Iran have few wifes. Its very rare.

Because a man can have more than one wife according to the Torah. However, this rule was removed by ashkenizic division since many wifes caused problems. Some sephardic people that still live in Iran have few wifes. Its very rare.


I have to correct myself, it wasn't "removed" but RESTRICTED to one wife only.

Life is soo random, its hard to predict and actually not advisable to state your stance.. Once stated, it will eventually come to pass that you will be tested on it at some point in your life. Therefore I cannot say anything, but I can say that men most often cheat for physical distraction from the same routine.. Basically to re-ignite their performance when it gets stale with the same partner.. They most often return to their spouse with much love and appreciation. Many men even resort to buying gifts and special treatment out of feeling guilty...
There is one risk involved in this. Every time a man cheats physically, he is gambling with the chance of possibly falling in love with another woman...

Women however, most often cheat due to lack of emotional fulfillment, rarely sexual unless the husband has serious problems or is a total prune.. The females who have "whorish" genetics cheat for the cheap thrill of it. Others who are in dysfunctional relationships do also..

There are an infinite number of reasons and possible situations that one may or may not cheat. I just beleive in not firmly declaring your stance ahead of time.. I deep in my heart know that it is wrong and hope i will never be tested by fate and placed in such a situation.

what would you do if your g'f or wife doesn't satisfy you?

well, the things is, I was told that, men cheat even when they are satisfied by their gf/wife.

the reason i asked this question is because. Lets say i was told to not date some individual who will supposedly cheat on me, even if he might love me. So, why should I even consider this factor if it applies to most men? I mean, I find it absolutely frustrating and hopeless. It is even making me question, this whole institution of marriage? I always thought that when two people marry, that means, they will be only with each other, no matter what life brings. Is it not so? I mean what kind of marriage would it be if every time there is some kind of problem, husband or wife would look for something on the side?

wэлл, тхэ тхингс ис, И wас толд тхат, мэн чэат эвэн wхэн тхэы арэ сатисфиэд бы тхэир гф/wифэ.
Тssipa, это не правда. Кто-то активно пытается тебя "надуть". Не поддавайся и не верь им.

Yes all men cheat!...and that i speak from experience. I guess one woman is never enough for them. HISTORY speaks for itself. ALL MEN CHEAT!...
But then again so do women!...at least when they are not married...I think kids keep women occupied when they are married and they don't have time to think about other men....while men...well you take a guess...


do not say all. u are wrong. i know a lot of guys who don't. it is just some of u girls fall in love with wrong guys who will eventually cheat. ......one of the reasons people get divorced. :conf:

the reason i asked this question is because. Lets say i was told to not date some individual who will supposedly cheat on me, even if he might love me. So, why should I even consider this factor if it applies to most men? I mean, I find it absolutely frustrating and hopeless. It is even making me question, this whole institution of marriage? I always thought that when two people marry, that means, they will be only with each other, no matter what life brings. Is it not so? I mean what kind of marriage would it be if every time there is some kind of problem, husband or wife would look for something on the side?

People make mistakes in life because of creating their futures based on past conditioning.. Always go with your heart (intuition and Instinct) and only good will come your way. Our ego's in combnation with our over active mind that retain past memories shape our futures when that should not be the case. If people live in the "Now" clear of all past events, they will begin to attract alot of positive people and events into their life spontaneously as meaningful coincidences. Its about stopping yourself, calming the mind from all its evaluating and judging and intepreting and simply embracing everyone and everything that happens to come your way..

I swear, I have started using these methods (it actually comes naturally with much truth seeking) and I must say that these very eery coincidences have begun to occur. Everything I stated above came from Deepak Chopra's philosophies, I recently viewed most of his DVD collection and read his books.

the reason i asked this question is because. Lets say i was told to not date some individual who will supposedly cheat on me, even if he might love me. So, why should I even consider this factor if it applies to most men? I mean, I find it absolutely frustrating and hopeless. It is even making me question, this whole institution of marriage? I always thought that when two people marry, that means, they will be only with each other, no matter what life brings. Is it not so? I mean what kind of marriage would it be if every time there is some kind of problem, husband or wife would look for something on the side?

Not all men cheat on their wives' either because of their cultural values or just simply because they are very satisfied with their relationship. It is true that all men want to have as many girlfriends as they want when they are single. But I believe that eventually what ALL guys want is to have a great girlfriend or a wife with whom they can have happy and fulfilling relationship. What I believe man and women want, is emotional stability so that they can concentrate on other aspects of their life--building their wealth and attain personal growth. So if a guy has a great girlfriend or a wife then he will make an effort not to jeopardize his amazing relationship.

To answer your question I think you should not settle for marriage unless you marry a guy who considers that cheating is not ethical after marriage, no matter how dissatisfied the marriage is, or unless you think that both of you love and trust each, which is important to insure that both of you don’t cheat. Marriage should be done only when you are confident that you will have exclusive relationship. Marriage is no different than a contract between two business partners to do business together. If you don’t trust your business partner why the hell would you make a contract with him?

To summaries everything I said: All guys are players but not all guys are cheaters. If you ask any guy what he really, really wants he will answer that he wants only one great girlfriend (wife).

My brother in law was the golden husband for 10 years, envied by other wives for his loyalty. A truly golden individual who loved my sister dearly, declined several opportunities and even my propositions to him confidentialy. They were bestfriends, confidants, everything to each other.. Not to mention like a brother that that I never had.

Lo and behold this angel, 10 years later (who dated my sister an additional 4 years before marriage) gets whooped by some average looking russian/tatar goy and completely changes. Falls in love all over again, feeling guilty as sin but cannot see my sister in with the same eyes anymore.

If someone told me a few years ago that this would happen, nobody would believe it!! This guy worshipped my sister, and now?? Wrong place + wrong time + wrong person = surprise surprise.... So please, let us not criticize anyone including ourselves.. You can't imagine the types of circumstances that life may present to you or your family.. You cna declare something today and in a few years bite your tongue.

My brother in law was the golden husband for 10 years, envied by other wives for his loyalty. A truly golden individual who loved my sister dearly, declined several opportunities and even my propositions to him confidentialy. They were bestfriends, confidants, everything to each other.. Not to mention like a brother that that I never had.

Lo and behold this angel, 10 years later (who dated my sister an additional 4 years before marriage) gets whooped by some average looking russian/tatar goy and completely changes. Falls in love all over again, feeling guilty as sin but cannot see my sister in with the same eyes anymore.

If someone told me a few years ago that this would happen, nobody would believe it!! This guy worshipped my sister, and now?? Wrong place + wrong time + wrong person = surprise surprise.... So please, let us not criticize anyone including ourselves.. You can't imagine the types of circumstances that life may present to you or your family.. You cna declare something today and in a few years bite your tongue.

wow very sad .......

So please, let us not criticize anyone including ourselves.. You can't imagine the types of circumstances that life may present to you or your family.. You cna declare something today and in a few years bite your tongue.

powerful words and lesson to be learned.. :sad17:

Yes, i know that everyday is a gamble, life is very unstable... :(
But how can I let go of the past..? I don't know about others but I tend to learn from my or other people's past. So how can I just let it go?

Yes, i know that everyday is a gamble, life is very unstable... :(
But how can I let go of the past..? I don't know about others but I tend to learn from my or other people's past. So how can I just let it go?


time after time................

Yes, i know that everyday is a gamble, life is very unstable... :(
But how can I let go of the past..? I don't know about others but I tend to learn from my or other people's past. So how can I just let it go?

There is no reason to let go of the past. After all your past is the reflector of your future. Life is about growth; while growth is about change. We learn as each day presents its own lesson, we learn to adapt those lessons to our present and then modulate with them in the future. A principal you held true to 10 years ago might subtly change due to certain sequence of events that occurred to u during those 10 years. So its only natural to modify your ideals or life goals. That’s all a lifetime learning process which makes life an exceptionally fascinating experience.

There is no reason to let go of the past. After all your past is the reflector of your future. Life is about growth; while growth is about change. We learn as each day presents its own lesson, we learn to adapt those lessons to our present and then modulate with them in the future. A principal you held true to 10 years ago might subtly change due to certain sequence of events that occurred to u during those 10 years. So its only natural to modify your ideals or life goals. That’s all a lifetime learning processing which makes life an exceptionally fascinating experience.

Thats actually not a good approach. Instead, it is better to live as pure spirit at all times and disregard past events. We can be our true selves taking things as they come and dealing with them with our inner wizard "intuition" science calls this the subconscious mind. It is an inner abyss of true awareness. Those who use the scars of their past to affect the decisions of their future are stuck in the past and are essentially allowing the past to control thier future. Living by past conditiong ultimately leads people to repeat mistakes even when they think and try to avoid them.

The birth of our ego and the over dominance of the mind are the core of suffering and drama in our lives.

Yes, i know that everyday is a gamble, life is very unstable... :(
But how can I let go of the past..? I don't know about others but I tend to learn from my or other people's past. So how can I just let it go?


Life is about evolution. You must continually evolve and develop into a better being. It is about having a family and intimacy. Life is about virtues, principles and good deeds, not shallowness found in just money, muscle and good looks. Life is about being intelligent and knowing your faults, about being able to recognize and correct them. It is about being charismatic so that others can look UP to you. Don't forget the people you meet on your way up, because you'll meet them on your way down. And although life isn't fair, in the end good guys always prevail. Finally, life is too short. You can be good and still have endless fun. I do. :conf:

Life is about evolution. You must continually evolve and develop into a better being. It is about having a family and intimacy. Life is about virtues, principles and good deeds, not shallowness found in just money, muscle and good looks. Life is about being intelligent and knowing your faults, about being able to recognize and correct them. It is about being charismatic so that others can look UP to you. Don't forget the people you meet on your way up, because you'll meet them on your way down. And although life isn't fair, in the end good guys always prevail. Finally, life is too short. You can be good and still have endless fun. I do. :conf:

Molodetz!! :happy65:

it does not make sense...:confused:

it does not make sense...:confused:


oh dont worry it is not only you who dont get me:) i will only need one girl to understand me and the one who will i make sense too:)
others dont matter:) :conf:

oh dont worry it is not only you who dont get me:) i will only need one girl to understand me and the one who will i make sense too:)
others dont matter:) :conf:

not you, executive. I don't get his post.

Don't worry I got you figured out. lol Same story all the time. Not that anything is wrong with that. :D

Also, it does not seem like you're having fun, as you wrote. If you are having fun, then your poems do not show that. :confused:

not you, executive. I don't get his post.

Don't worry I got you figured out. lol Same story all the time. Not that anything is wrong with that. :D

Also, it does not seem like you're having fun, as you wrote. If you are having fun, then your poems do not show that. :confused:


most of the poems i posted here when i was about your age.......but now times have changed and i did change as well in a good way of course.
my new poems are not yet here...........i am waiting for the right moment ...... :conf:

Do all men cheat, on their girlfriends/wives, when an opportunity presents itself?
Tssipa, 99% of men cheat...
This is the way Hashem created them, and therefore we have to accept that fate.

Tssipa, 99% of men cheat...
This is the way Hashem created them, and therefore we have to accept that fate.

a ok togda ya 1% per cent...........:) :cerenad:

Tssipa, 99% of men cheat...
This is the way Hashem created them, and therefore we have to accept that fate.

I'm not sure where I heard it, but if Hashem would have created men this way, then He would have created more than one Eve. Don't you think so?

In my darker days I used to be aquainted with an owner of a call girl service. Their main clientelle were Orthodox Jewish men... I rest my case..

In my darker days I used to be aquainted with an owner of a call girl service. Their main clientelle were Orthodox Jewish men... I rest my case..
I agree with that......It is sickening to see how orthodox Jews behave in regard to sex......
Not too long ago I worked for an orthodox Jew, and let me tell you, he was far from being an angle.....he told me himself of his multiple girlfreinds and the places he goes to to find these girls. The man has a wife and 5 kids who live happily ever after......

I agree with that......It is sickening to see how orthodox Jews behave in regard to sex......
Not too long ago I worked for an orthodox Jew, and let me tell you, he was far from being an angle.....he told me himself of his multiple girlfreinds and the places he goes to to find these girls. The man has a wife and 5 kids who live happily ever after......

do not jugde all by one..................... :conf:

do not jugde all by one..................... :conf:
Its not one.....all his collegus do the same thing.....I just heard too many stories about too many people to ignore it.....I am not saying that all do that, but (unfortunatly) a good portion of them certainly do

No, I don't think all men cheat You cannot label ALL men by certain characteritics. It's just immoral. Yes, ALL men have a POTENTIAL to cheat.

I agree with that......It is sickening to see how orthodox Jews behave in regard to sex......
Not too long ago I worked for an orthodox Jew, and let me tell you, he was far from being an angle.....he told me himself of his multiple girlfreinds and the places he goes to to find these girls. The man has a wife and 5 kids who live happily ever after......
Maybe its good that he does that, can you imagine how many kids they would have if he wouldnt have these alternatives.

Maybe its good that he does that, can you imagine how many kids they would have if he wouldnt have these alternatives.

:happy65: :happy65: FUNNY!!!

Maybe its good that he does that, can you imagine how many kids they would have if he wouldnt have these alternatives.
LOL......maybe.....

Tssipa, 99% of men cheat...
This is the way Hashem created them, and therefore we have to accept that fate.

Ну зачем такой негативизм? Я же могу такое же сказать про женщин!!!

I'll be honest...If we are talking about the POTENTIAL to cheat, then here is my take on it. If you are a sexual human being, and don't have any sexual problems, then you have a potential to cheat whether you're male or female.

The question is can you morally control yourself. To be honest, I think most men and women can. Unfortunately, there is a small percentage of men and women who can not, which is the reason why there are such stereotypes.

do not say all. u are wrong. i know a lot of guys who don't. it is just some of u girls fall in love with wrong guys who will eventually cheat. ......one of the reasons people get divorced. :conf:


you know what.....maybe you're right...not "ALL"...but a good precentage of men and woman will cheat.

and reffering to the other comments...

honestly you never know were you will end up next. You can go out with your friends and an opporutnity will come around the corner. Business trip, or a trip out of state can....a new guy or girl sitting next to you in a classroom whom you may actually like a lot....
A fight can cause you to turn your head the other way too...
Or not to mention the "breaks" you take during the relationships....all that leads to cheating at the end...

What is the point of a break anyway? Is a "break" ment to take a breather and date new people?...
I mean if you're on a break that doesn't mean you're broken up!

Then when you "see" OTHER PEOPLE you are "cheating!"

Yep...people cheat!

Why are we all attempting to answer something that has no answer?? This entire argument is one futile debate because the possibilities as I said before, are endless. Yes some cheat and some don't, if we get into the mechanics of it, this thread will outlast all of our lives..

so let it. That is what the forum is for... to share and discuss your opinions

This thread is attempting to ascertain something that cannot be ascertained. The forum would be more productive commenting about something that already is in existance or has resulted, and everyone states their views on the result of what IS. The question posed in this thread is attempting to predict a result which cannot be predicted...
Or perhaps if it was rephrased and a relative current example was given on which to base oppinions on, would make it more plausible to discuss. Here everyone is throwing darts in several directions.. "Do all men cheat" is similar to "Do all mother's breast feed". Some do and some don't. Anything in particular on your mind?? Just my oppinion.

This thread is attempting to ascertain something that cannot be ascertained. The forum would be more productive commenting about something that already is in existance or has resulted, and everyone states their views on the result of what IS. The question posed in this thread is attempting to predict a result which cannot be predicted...
Or perhaps if it was rephrased and a relative current example was given on which to base oppinions on, would make it more plausible to discuss. Here everyone is throwing darts in several directions.. "Do all men cheat" is similar to "Do all mother's breast feed". Some do and some don't. Anything in particular on your mind?? Just my oppinion.

Ok then, would you like to rephrase it and give an example?

I gave actually did give an "example". That was "~reason~ ". My second post, after my 1st one.

Ну зачем такой негативизм? Я же могу такое же сказать про женщин!!!

I'll be honest...If we are talking about the POTENTIAL to cheat, then here is my take on it. If you are a sexual human being, and don't have any sexual problems, then you have a potential to cheat whether you're male or female.

The question is can you morally control yourself. To be honest, I think most men and women can. Unfortunately, there is a small percentage of men and women who can not, which is the reason why there are such stereotypes.
there are different levels of cheating: mental, physical and spiritual.
that is why i said 99%
but what is actual cheating guys???
which one of these types is the worst kind of cheating according to you?

you are right friendly, everyone has a potential to cheat, both women and men.

there are different levels of cheating: mental, physical and spiritual.
that is why i said 99%
but what is actual cheating guys???
which one of these types is the worst kind of cheating according to you?

you are right friendly, everyone has a potential to cheat, both women and men.
Can you define "mental" and "spiritual" cheating?? please.....

Can you define "mental" and "spiritual" cheating?? please.....
shosh... i asked you guys to define first.

shosh... i asked you guys to define first.
no you didnt.....you asked us to say which one is worse....I am asking you to define them so that I can make the choice.

no you didnt.....you asked us to say which one is worse....I am asking you to define them so that I can make the choice.

I agree...I'm not quiet sure I understand the meaning of those different types of cheating....maybe i should take more sociology classes!!!!

This thread is attempting to ascertain something that cannot be ascertained. The forum would be more productive commenting about something that already is in existance or has resulted, and everyone states their views on the result of what IS. The question posed in this thread is attempting to predict a result which cannot be predicted...
Or perhaps if it was rephrased and a relative current example was given on which to base oppinions on, would make it more plausible to discuss. Here everyone is throwing darts in several directions.. "Do all men cheat" is similar to "Do all mother's breast feed". Some do and some don't. Anything in particular on your mind?? Just my oppinion.

In every argument, no matter how long it is, there is a lesson to be learned.

Do all men cheat, on their girlfriends/wives, when an opportunity presents itself?

Ok, in that case. Please define your version of an "opportunity"... Lets disect this question for what it really is about :). Give a hypothetical example of an "opportunity" so I can base my answer on that particular opportunity. Because in all honesty, the infinite amount of possibilities for cheating really do depend on various factors, including the specific "opportunity"...

By the way "Wedding Crashers" is a must see at the movies :D

"opportunity"--->>> a woman is interested(wants to have sexual intercorse/interested in dating/marriage/interested in being impregnated by...) in a guy(who is already married or has a gf).

"opportunity"--->>> a woman is interested(wants to have sexual intercorse/interested in dating/marriage/interested in being impregnated by...) in a guy(who is already married or has a gf).

"impregnated"?? Do you mean penetrated? :). Technically cheating is between a husband and wife, after a hupa. So based on the above scenario, I can say that the possibility of cheating is likely if an attractive female blatently throws her self at a man, unless he has a will of steel :D

"impregnated"?? Do you mean penetrated? :). Technically cheating is between a husband and wife, after a hupa. So based on the above scenario, I can say that the possibility of cheating is likely if an attractive female blatently throws her self at a man, unless he has a will of steel :D

do you mean, the fact that he is married and may be even in love with his wife will not hold him back?

do you mean, the fact that he is married and may be even in love with his wife will not hold him back?

That definetly would be a factor in holding him back... Its ashame Jews don't exchange vowes like Christians do :). But, the sin of adultery isn't something pleasant to think about. You must understand also that the act of cheating is most often physical lust that pushes a man to take such an opportunity. I am sure after the act is over, he will snap out of his aroused state of mind and run back home to his wife and kids with a huge bouquet of roses and a gold necklace :D

That definetly would be a factor in holding him back... Its ashame Jews don't exchange vowes like Christians do :). But, the sin of adultery isn't something pleasant to think about. You must understand also that the act of cheating is most often physical lust that pushes a man to take such an opportunity. I am sure after the act is over, he will snap out of his aroused state of mind and run back home to his wife and kids with a huge bouquet of roses and a gold necklace :D

:( this is Heartbreaking!!!

:( this is Heartbreaking!!!

Maybe this comparison will make you feel better:

Wife is to a diamond ring as a Mistress (whore) is to a toy from a box of cracker jack :D

Maybe this comparison will make you feel better:

Wife is to a diamond ring as a Mistress (whore) is to a toy from a box of cracker jack :D

Is the "toy" battaries included?

Maybe this comparison will make you feel better:

Wife is to a diamond ring as a Mistress (whore) is to a toy from a box of cracker jack :D

It is funny, but it still does not make me feel better.

I wonder what sin is considered worse: waste of seeds or just a physical adultery?

I wonder what sin is considered worse: waste of seeds or just a physical adultery?

what do you mean ~"just physical adultery"~?

all the guys who support adultery of any kind, deserve a$$ whipping :fight56:

I wonder what sin is considered worse: waste of seeds or just a physical adultery?

Physical adultery is same as physical therapy. Nothing bad with it. Both are touching of one person's skin with another to heal the body. Waste of seed is worse. :fight56:

what do you mean ~"just physical adultery"~?

all the guys who support adultery of any kind, deserve a$$ whipping :fight56:
I didnt say I support adultery. I asked a question
to plan for the future.

Physical adultery is same as physical therapy. Nothing bad with it. Both are touching of one person's skin with another to heal the body. Waste of seed is worse. :fight56:

OOPS but wait. When you have adultery you also waste seed. So what am I talking about?

I wonder what sin is considered worse: waste of seeds or just a physical adultery?

So wait, there's visual adultery also?? Would that be undressing a female with my eyes? :). Adultery is adultery my friend. Its like being almost pregnant :D

Definetly adultery is worse. Its one of the ten commandments: "Thou shall not commit adultery". Seed on the other hand will waist itself if we don't do the honors :). The more we attempt to save it, eventually it will escape on its own during a "wet dream" as it is called. Besides, look at all the criminals in the world, they are in themselves unintentional waist of seeds :).

So wait, there's visual adultery also?? Would that be undressing a female with my eyes? :). Adultery is adultery my friend. Its like being almost pregnant :D
I thought you dissected adultery into 1.emothional (when the husband falls in love while commiting adultery) and 2.physical (when a husband sexually entertains himself with another woman) In any event, one positive aspect might be that a husband can learn some new tricks and twists and use them with his wife.

I thought you dissected adultery into 1.emothional (when the husband falls in love while commiting adultery) and 2.physical (when a husband sexually entertains himself with another woman) In any event, one positive aspect might be that a husband can learn some new tricks and twists and use them with his wife.

LOL, you sure know how to turn around any dilemma :D

Do all men cheat, on their girlfriends/wives, when an opportunity presents itself?

Man will never cheat if his wife or girlfriend “feeds” him to the fullest satisfaction. Unfortunately, from my observation this is not the case for many men. Yes, there are those men, whose state of mind is able to control the unfulfilled desire which eventually negatively reflects on the men' mood and health.

Man will never cheat if his wife or girlfriend “feeds” him to the fullest satisfaction. Unfortunately, from my observation this is not the case for many men. Yes, there are those men, whose state of mind is able to control the unfulfilled desire which eventually negatively reflects on the men' mood and health.

Please elaborate on "feeds". What exactly will she be feeding him?

Please elaborate on "feeds". What exactly will she be feeding him?


lol
yea, what will she be feeding him? Is it kosher?

I'm not sure where I heard it, but if Hashem would have created men this way, then He would have created more than one Eve. Don't you think so?

I think becaues Eve disobayed Hashem and ate the forbiden fruit, he decided to punish women and have men cheat on them :)
food for thought :)

Женщины ну уж очень соблазнительны для здорового мужчины.
В этом может быть вся проблема и заключается.

lol
yea, what will she be feeding him? Is it kosher?

Feeds with the feeding tool. Let's leave at that.

Can you define "mental" and "spiritual" cheating?? please.....

mental cheating shosh is when you think physically of someone else while you are with your partner...
spiritual cheating is when your soul reaches out to someone you love in soul while you are with your partner...
and physical cheating is when you are actually physical with someone other than your partner.
now my question was... guys, which cheating is worse???

mental cheating shosh is when you think physically of someone else while you are with your partner...
spiritual cheating is when your soul reaches out to someone you love in soul while you are with your partner...
and physical cheating is when you are actually physical with someone other than your partner.
now my question was... guys, which cheating is worse???

<== confused :confused:. Is the "partner" in all these instances the wife or not necessarily??

mental cheating shosh is when you think physically of someone else while you are with your partner...
spiritual cheating is when your soul reaches out to someone you love in soul while you are with your partner...
and physical cheating is when you are actually physical with someone other than your partner.
now my question was... guys, which cheating is worse???

Damn you are so strict. So when I will get married is watching porn called cheating on my wife, because I will be physically thinking about naked girls on the TV screen?

Damn you are so strict. So when I will get married is watching porn called cheating on my wife, because I will be physically thinking about naked girls on the TV screen?


LOL :iprayu:

mental cheating shosh is when you think physically of someone else while you are with your partner...
spiritual cheating is when your soul reaches out to someone you love in soul while you are with your partner...
and physical cheating is when you are actually physical with someone other than your partner.
now my question was... guys, which cheating is worse???
Sweety, you are really getting me confused......If a person is cheating in one sort of way he\she is cheating in them all..Cheating is cheating.....

Sweety, you are really getting me confused......If a person is cheating in one sort of way he\she is cheating in them all..Cheating is cheating.....

Well according to him, your husband can be in bed with you and "mentally" picturing someone else :). Imagine that? How would you prove it ? :)

I just think you girls should just cover the eyes of man, and just lead the road.

I just think you girls should just cover the eyes of man, and just lead the road.
Can you translate that becuase I just do not understand what you are saying...sorry :)

Can you translate that becuase I just do not understand what you are saying...sorry :)


It's ok dont be sorry, just don't do that again. What i am saying is that be a good wife and husband won't cheat on you.

It's ok dont be sorry, just don't do that again. What i am saying is that be a good wife and husband won't cheat on you.
Ahhhhhhhh......Got you! thanks.....lol

<== confused :confused:. Is the "partner" in all these instances the wife or not necessarily??
not necessarily...

Damn you are so strict. So when I will get married is watching porn called cheating on my wife, because I will be physically thinking about naked girls on the TV screen?
yes... you will be idolizing other women (according to our sages that is forbidden).
then again, my question was for you:
Which one of these cheatings is worse???

Sweety, you are really getting me confused......If a person is cheating in one sort of way he\she is cheating in them all..Cheating is cheating.....
shosh, do you consider all of those ways cheating, or only physical cheating cheating???

It's ok dont be sorry, just don't do that again. What i am saying is that be a good wife and husband won't cheat on you.
i really like your answer.... define what a good wife is. i need to know in order to succeed in my future marriage.

i really like your answer.... define what a good wife is. i need to know in order to succeed in my future marriage.
Just do what your husband wants you to do. Do laundary, cook, clean, and smile. Sit when he tells you to sit. Lay down when he tells you to lay down. Don't talk to much. And most important never ever lead him in dancing. ;)



say :master: and be :pregnt:

i really like your answer.... define what a good wife is. i need to know in order to succeed in my future marriage.

Argon has summerized it well, however if you really want to be successful in marriage and your future husband, PRAY for a good husband. Since in the torah it says, Leah was destined to marry Esau, but her eyes were tendered since she cried not to marry him, and thats why she married Yakov. So PRAY for a good husband.

It's ok dont be sorry, just don't do that again. What i am saying is that be a good wife and husband won't cheat on you.


hhhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmm, make her responsible for his stupidity.

hhhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmm, make her responsible for his stupidity.


Do we have a problem here, or you would like some relationship therapy? I do provide it :love25:

Do we have a problem here, or you would like some relationship therapy? I do provide it :love25:

It's ok i get it from the pro's. Thanks for your offer, though

It's ok i get it from the pro's. Thanks for your offer, though

From a Pro's? Don't tell me you were that desperate for it, come on, you needed a proffesional for it? :happy65:

From a Pro's? Don't tell me you were that desperate for it, come on, you needed a proffesional for it? :happy65:

dude, I work on the behavioral health unit. We got psychiatrists, social workers, occupational therapists, psychologists all over the place.

And just to let you know, since all the above stated professionals use their own personalities as a tool, to help those in need, For that reason they meet weekly just to make sure that everyone is still kicking (in regard to patients and therapists):D. So yes, we all need therapy otherwise we'll go nuts. :D

dude, I work on the behavioral health unit. We got psychiatrists, social workers, occupational therapists, psychologists all over the place.

And just to let you know, since all the above stated professionals use their own personalities as a tool, to help those in need, For that reason they meet weekly just to make sure that everyone is still kicking (in regard to patients and therapists):D. So yes, we all need therapy otherwise we'll go nuts. :D


Than you sure do work in the right place for yourself, surrounded by them. It seems that you need something more powerful therapy, since they haven't helped you yet. Believe me, only i provide those kinds.

Than you sure do work in the right place for yourself, surrounded by them. It seems that you need something more powerful therapy, since they haven't helped you yet. Believe me, only i provide those kinds.

This sounds very cheesy. ;) Assuming you're a guy, do you provide this service to women only? or can i sign up for it too?

This sounds very cheesy. ;) Assuming you're a guy, do you provide this service to women only? or can i sign up for it too?

are you sure you want his help? He sounds like one of the schizophrenic patients. lol He thinks he has great powers. heheheh
toba toba toba.

This sounds very cheesy. ;) Assuming you're a guy, do you provide this service to women only? or can i sign up for it too?

Men don't need this therapy, the only therapy they need is some slapping and whooping... :)


On the other hand, girls need this "special relationship therapy" since they talk about it day and night. :kiss2: Especially Tssipa needs one asap.

are you sure you want his help? He sounds like one of the schizophrenic patients. lol He thinks he has great powers. heheheh
toba toba toba.

Well i do have the powers to help you. So don't be scared of me. In our days there are a lot of people like you. And remmeber, it's ok to ask for help, just don't do it in hints.

Anyways, my warm bed is awaiting me. :)

are you sure you want his help? He sounds like one of the schizophrenic patients. lol He thinks he has great powers. heheheh
toba toba toba.

Da net, nu zachem tak....We can learn from everyone!!!!

I'm not sure where I heard it, but if Hashem would have created men this way, then He would have created more than one Eve. Don't you think so?
that is true, i strongly agree... but He tempts them, and most fail... (don't get me wrong women fail too)

Just do what your husband wants you to do. Do laundary, cook, clean, and smile. Sit when he tells you to sit. Lay down when he tells you to lay down. Don't talk to much. And most important never ever lead him in dancing. ;)



say :master: and be :pregnt:
man... you're so strict!!!
my # 1 prob. is that i always tend to lead when dancing...

then what would make a good husband???

Argon has summerized it well, however if you really want to be successful in marriage and your future husband, PRAY for a good husband. Since in the torah it says, Leah was destined to marry Esau, but her eyes were tendered since she cried not to marry him, and thats why she married Yakov. So PRAY for a good husband.
i like your answer better :) thank you i am praying...

are you sure you want his help? He sounds like one of the schizophrenic patients. lol He thinks he has great powers. heheheh
toba toba toba.

A person is truly insane only when they think they are normal :). I don't disrespect the insane who they think are special, I disrespect the stupid when they think they are smart. ;)

A person is truly insane only when they think they are normal :). I don't disrespect the insane who they think are special, I disrespect the stupid when they think they are smart. ;)

Do you think you are smart?