As I was attempting to login to Bukharian.com this evening, I received a message saying I have been banned from the forums.

And why you may ask? Last week I posted a hypothetical question simply stating: "Hypothetically speaking -- how do you think should a religiously observant person be punished if he blatantly LIES to his Jewish congregation/community?" In all honesty, I was innocently curious and had no idea it amounts to the grounds for getting banned.

I'd like to know what others think about this situation. :innocen:

As I was attempting to login to Bukharian.com this evening, I received a message saying I have been banned from the forums.

And why you may ask? Last week I posted a hypothetical question simply stating: "Hypothetically speaking -- how do you think should a religiously observant person be punished if he blatantly LIES to his Jewish congregation/community?" In all honesty, I was innocently curious and had no idea it amounts to the grounds for getting banned.

I'd like to know what others think about this situation. :innocen:

LOL this one is funny now. Lets not discuss the affairs of other websites during the 10 days, after Aug 15.

As I was attempting to login to Bukharian.com this evening, I received a message saying I have been banned from the forums.

And why you may ask? Last week I posted a hypothetical question simply stating: "Hypothetically speaking -- how do you think should a religiously observant person be punished if he blatantly LIES to his Jewish congregation/community?" In all honesty, I was innocently curious and had no idea it amounts to the grounds for getting banned.

I'd like to know what others think about this situation. :innocen:

Who were you referring to? I am sure it wasn't as hypothetical as you put it..

Who were you referring to? I am sure it wasn't as hypothetical as you put it..

does speaking hypothetically/less hypothetically somehow break forum rules? is it sufficient ground for being banned?
frankly, I can't believe you're justifying that admin's behavior since you yourself was once a victim of abusive authority LOL

Admins have gone mad! they place these forum rules, and then arrogantly BREAK THEM! They ban people left and right! Well, they're the ones who should be banned :cerenad: LOL

It just that your post stirred certain things that were not supposed to be touched. And some particular people threw some names around, and that should not have been done. I really think everyone should abstain from starting this war between the sites. This is ridiculous. Whatever it was that lead to creation of new sites, is already in the past. I think it will bring more destruction to our community if we will start pulling things from the past, mixing them with the present, and completely destroying the future. Some things simply should be left where they are. There is no need to carry dirt from one house to the next.

It just that your post stirred certain things that were not supposed to be touched. And some particular people threw some names around, and that should not have been done. I really think everyone should abstain from starting this war between the sites. This is ridiculous. Whatever it was that lead to creation of new sites, is already in the past. I think it will bring more destruction to our community if we will start pulling things from the past, mixing them with the present, and completely destroying the future. Some things simply should be left where they are. There is no need to carry dirt from one house to the next.

Tsippa, you cranked me up! LOL
Who is causing war between the sites???!!!
Check Bukharian.com Admin’s post:

"Those who left our organization were real traitors! I do not wish to name anyone, but they left for one purpose: to make money! When one builds something based on hatred and jealousy, G-d does not help and unfortunately for them they all fail now! As you can see by the posts on the other sites, they are pretty jealous about this unity! "

Is that sane to you, Tsippa??? Did you even try to correct this madness on that site? Did you post the same text about "keeping the past in the past" on that other site? Why not Tsippa? Are you afraid to be banned? LOL Well, you should be.



Now you seem to be logical person, so you SHOULD understand that any drastic action such as banning needs a valid ground. Breaking forum rules is that valid ground. Everything else is an abuse of power. Can you at least agree on that? Now, go to that site and read "forum rules", then point to me which rule I broke. Thanks in advance.

Keep in mind -- today it is me, tomorrow it MUST be you. That is the way dictatorships operate. Fight for fairness and combat special interests. :happy05:

lol, that erson is really going crazy after selling his org...
Rayash ba khudash boshad, az peshtash nezik nebiyoyad! :happy05:

Inquisitor,
If you remove your avatar, we will consider you having back, our "purpose: is no to make money!" we never did ask for money, we are trying to unite and orgenize jewish community.

That is the way dictatorships operate.
omg lol are we during World War II?
we dont operate we functiaonas as a central communication to bukhrian community.

Yes it is not pleasant when rules are too hursh, but no rules results in chaos.

Yes it is not pleasant when rules are too hursh, but no rules results in chaos.

Tsippa, rules in that website are not harsh, what's harsh is an abuse of power.
Forum rules are there for members as a guideline during a discussion process.
Admin's responsibility is to execute those rules fairly and justly.
What happened there is a complete breakdown of all rules and regulation -- a member was banned for no apparent reason.
I hope same thing never happens here or on any other website. :)

Tsippa, rules in that website are not harsh, what's harsh is an abuse of power.
Forum rules are there for members as a guideline during a discussion process.
Admin's responsibility is to execute those rules fairly and justly.
What happened there is a complete breakdown of all rules and regulation -- a member was banned for no apparent reason.
I hope same thing never happens here or on any other website. :)

We still haven't figured out what your avatar is supposed to symbolize and what your intentions/goals are on these Bukharian websites. Can we have some background on you? Unless ofcourse you'd prefer to keep it confidential. You see, I would recommend you be forthcoming and tell us more about yourself as opposed to us assuming the worst about you. For all we know, your some radical Bukharian christian convert trying to spread the influence and instigate conflict within our community.

For all we know, your some radical Bukharian christian convert trying to spread the influence and instigate conflict within our community.
lol, I'm sure he's acting out... :innoc04:

For all we know, your some radical Bukharian christian convert trying to spread the influence and instigate conflict within our community.

Жабрик, ты в своём умэ?

Tsippa, rules in that website are not harsh, what's harsh is an abuse of power.
Forum rules are there for members as a guideline during a discussion process.
Admin's responsibility is to execute those rules fairly and justly.
What happened there is a complete breakdown of all rules and regulation -- a member was banned for no apparent reason.
I hope same thing never happens here or on any other website. :)

Mr Inquisitor,

Many of us here are victims of such abuse, so together we will all try to live in peace here :innoc04:

But as suggested above, please, let us not discuss the wrongdoings of some during this week before the 9th of Av.

We still haven't figured out what your avatar is supposed to symbolize and what your intentions/goals are on these Bukharian websites. Can we have some background on you? Unless ofcourse you'd prefer to keep it confidential. You see, I would recommend you be forthcoming and tell us more about yourself as opposed to us assuming the worst about you. For all we know, your some radical Bukharian christian convert trying to spread the influence and instigate conflict within our community.

Both of you come to the lecture this Thursday to introduce yourselves :love14:

Mr Inquisitor,

Many of us here are victims of such abuse, so together we will all try to live in peace here :innoc04:


Это значит что в "лагере беженцев" прибавилось ещо одной жертвой-мучеником - Инквизитором. :happy05: :happy05: :happy05:

Это значит что в "лагере беженцев" прибавилось ещо одной жертвой-мучеником - Инквизитором. :happy05: :happy05: :happy05:

Инквизитор и мученик - парадокс какой-то :conf: :)

I'm in the club!!!!! I got banned on the forum too.

People do you need therapy? hehehe

People do you need therapy? hehehe


You want to provide me with a personal one? ;)

You want to provide me with a personal one? ;)

hehehe I would love to, However, I got in trouble for offering individual psychotherapies. Apparently it is not within the scope of occupational therapy. :/.

But I'm up for a group session. hehehe :D And it seems like we have more than one person.

hehehe I would love to, However, I got in trouble for offering individual psychotherapies. Apparently it is not within the scope of occupational therapy. :/.

But I'm up for a group session. hehehe :D And it seems like we have more than one person.

hmmm...i never knew you were into "group" things :kiss2:

hmmm...i never knew you were into "group" things :kiss2:

lol shoot, how could i :innocen:have let it slip like that, knowing what kind of people we have here.

lol shoot, how could i :innocen:have let it slip like that, knowing what kind of people we have here.

How many people can sign up for this group thing? Should we take a number?

How many people can sign up for this group thing? Should we take a number?


I believe we should ask Tssipa how much she can serve per session. :happy05:

How many people can sign up for this group thing? Should we take a number?

To hek with the numbers, just jump right in :D

lol, well it depends on your behavior. If all of you will behave then we could do more than 10 per session. :D lol and I am still talking about group therapy. NOTHING Physical, remember that this is not a Physical Therapy. lool

p.s. vot tak vot, skazhi chto nibud' a potom vikruchivaisya. hehehe nu vi rebyata.... nu pagadite.... :D

mne interesno, chto budit za topic na therapy?

mne interesno, chto budit za topic na therapy?

"Impulse control", under anger management category,

or "how to play nicely on the playground?" :D

Will you have a punching bag handy or will you volunteer? :D

Will you have a punching bag handy or will you volunteer? :D

I said, nothing physical remember?

Anger generates more anger. So we will do relaxation techniques and losts of talking.

I said, nothing physical remember?

Anger generates more anger. So we will do relaxation techniques and losts of talking.

But there must be a method for releasing stored frustration. In Japan, companies have special rooms where employees enter to scream and punch a punching bag to vent :). Talking simply doesn't cut it sometimes my dear.

But there must be a method for releasing stored frustration. In Japan, companies have special rooms where employees enter to scream and punch a punching bag to vent :). Talking simply doesn't cut it sometimes my dear.

well, that will be the goal of this group. How to let go of your anger without violence (physical) or insults (verbal)?

well, that will be the goal of this group. How to let go of your anger without violence (physical) or insults (verbal)?
Do you really think that it will work with a group of subjects such as these? lol :happy05:

Do you really think that it will work with a group of subjects such as these? lol :happy05:

heheheh, well, the least we can do is try.

Do you really think that it will work with a group of subjects such as these? lol :happy05:

OK that's it...I think I know the trick here.....Shoshy and Tssipa, you guys can lead and get all the girls from this forum to do a session together. The girls can lead and we guys can just follow!!!!! (I don't say that too often, so you better grab the opportunity)

:fight25: But there must be a method for releasing stored frustration. In Japan, companies have special rooms where employees enter to scream and punch a punching bag to vent :). Talking simply doesn't cut it sometimes my dear.
Can you imagine a Japanies with an angry face. When I imagine that twisted face I laugh, especially when they scream in that distorted language. It is so funny to watch Japanize husband and wife having a verbal fight. :fight25:

OK that's it...I think I know the trick here.....Shoshy and Tssipa, you guys can lead and get all the girls from this forum to do a session together. The girls can lead and we guys can just follow!!!!! (I don't say that too often, so you better grab the opportunity)
Can you elaborate on that great "opportunity" of yours? Lead off...? Follow...? Are we still talking about a therapy group here?

Can you elaborate on that great "opportunity" of yours? Lead off...? Follow...? Are we still talking about a therapy group here?

LOL...I was talking about the opportunity of ladies leading and men following (it was a joke of course). Yes I'm still talking about therapy groups. What else could I be talking about? ;)

As I was attempting to login to Bukharian.com this evening, I received a message saying I have been banned from the forums.

And why you may ask? Last week I posted a hypothetical question simply stating: "Hypothetically speaking -- how do you think should a religiously observant person be punished if he blatantly LIES to his Jewish congregation/community?" In all honesty, I was innocently curious and had no idea it amounts to the grounds for getting banned.

I'd like to know what others think about this situation. :innocen:

My friend,

b.com is a really cool site. Just like this one, it has its own exceptionalities and unique features that attract members to sigh up. In fact, they are all great. I agree each site differs in management style. And that’s what cool about it. A misunderstanding happens. I am sure if you explain to Admin what you meant by your question, he will understand and give you back your log in. There is a possibility that the site has taken you for somebody else or your avatar has caused the problem or you violated the rules of b.com which you have missed while reading. Even a sentence makes a difference. Get the feedback and see what happens.


Good Luck

Ilya

"Just to let everyone know, Nitro is not banned, despite what he wrote on other websites. I guess this proves what people will do just to embarass others in order to prove their point. He is just not allowed to make any posts as a punishment for physically threatening one of the members on this forum." A Quote from BJOY ADMIN.

I love the words of "physically threatening" and "one of the members on this forum."
Now this is the most halarious statement i have heard in the past 5 years. Sweet.
Maybe because the "member on this forum" is the Admin himself. :)

We are talking here about a life and death situation, so guys stay calm.

"Just to let everyone know, Nitro is not banned, despite what he wrote on other websites. I guess this proves what people will do just to embarass others in order to prove their point. He is just not allowed to make any posts as a punishment for physically threatening one of the members on this forum." A Quote from BJOY ADMIN.

I love the words of "physically threatening" and "one of the members on this forum."
Now this is the most halarious statement i have heard in the past 5 years. Sweet.
Maybe because the "member on this forum" is the Admin himself. :)

We are talking here about a life and death situation, so guys stay calm.
lol, the "dude :sign58:" is really gone crazy since the time "his" staff left him~BJOY...:cool43:
Ya takuyu ne davolnayu rozhu v zhizne nevidal.Toba-toda, reyash ba khudash! :party36:

Inquisitor, try to log in back to that website with a diffrent pc so it would identify you as a diffrent ip address, so that way post lot;s of the sh*t out of that administrator, lol

Inquisitor, try to log in back to that website with a diffrent pc so it would identify you as a diffrent ip address, so that way post lot;s of the sh*t out of that administrator, lol
lol, good point! :happy65:

Admins have gone mad! they place these forum rules, and then arrogantly BREAK THEM! They ban people left and right! Well, they're the ones who should be banned :cerenad: LOL

i'm going to have to agree with you on that one Inquisitor.
If admins are the ones who brake the rules why should any one else should folow them! i think it's bec war between two religion.

may I ask, why do you people act so childish and create all this dirty talk. I do not know if this is true or not, so no comment on that. But why act so... ?

Не нужно ни о ком ничего говорить. Самая хорошая месть - это счастье. Так будьте вы счастливы на другом форуме (например boojle.com) и все другие Админы вам будут завидовать.

На этом, я думаю можно закрыть здесь разговор.

bec that admin is apiece of beeep!, he tryed to ban me ones as well, for no reason.

Guys, I am reinstated in that forum.
Thank G-d, BJOY Admin came to his senses.
Thanks to all those who were involved in my reinstatement

:iprayu:

People I do not like wars and do not like people that ignite wars. I do not like sneaky people either.

Banning was not enough IMHO.