View Full Version : You are told that your spouse is cheating....What will you do next?


Tssipa
08-12-2005, 01:29 AM
Situation: You are married and have children with your spouse. You receive a phone call, "your husband/wife is cheating on you!!!" and that person hangs up on you.
What is your next step?

The phone call has been confirmed with the evidence...At this point you are 100% sure that your spouse cheated on you.

What will you you?

FriendlyPA
08-12-2005, 01:33 AM
Situation: You are married and have children with your spouse. You receive a phone call, "your husband/wife is cheating on you!!!" and that person hangs up on you. What is your next step?

So far this is not a hard question...if this was the case then the next step is to investigate and make sure that the person who made the phone call was not lying. It becomes hard when everything gets confirmed and you know that your husband/wife is definately cheating on you. This I'll leave to other members for ideas. ;)

Code9
08-12-2005, 01:34 AM
Situation: You are married and have children with your spouse. You receive a phone call, "your husband/wife is cheating on you!!!" and that person hangs up on you. What is your next step?


My next step would be to :love26: my wife and give her a huge :innoc04: .
And than have fun at night.

Code9
08-12-2005, 01:42 AM
The phone call has been confirmed with the evidence...

What will you you?

Elaborate on the statement "confirmed with the evidence"....

Executive
08-12-2005, 10:41 AM
Okayy.. If it all confirmed and evidence is 100% true... Who was she screwing? A stranger or a friend? This makes a difference. If the dirt is within the community, we'd have to shoot her and the guy, if its a stranger, we simply punish her :D. lol.. I rather not think about this..

TheSpiritualOne
08-12-2005, 10:54 AM
Situation: You are married and have children with your spouse. You receive a phone call, "your husband/wife is cheating on you!!!" and that person hangs up on you.
What is your next step?

The phone call has been confirmed with the evidence...At this point you are 100% sure that your spouse cheated on you.

What will you you?
no sweetie, at this point you are not 100% sure...
you need more than one witness to believe it.
i would say don't believe, until your husband confirms with you, or you actually see it for yourself.

Executive
08-12-2005, 11:23 AM
no sweetie, at this point you are not 100% sure...
you need more than one witness to believe it.
i would say don't believe, until your husband confirms with you, or you actually see it for yourself.

Okay her point is, imagine you caught them in bed together going at it. Then what?

Code9
08-12-2005, 11:34 AM
Okay her point is, imagine you caught them in bed together going at it. Then what?


Divorce... There is nothing to think about.

Shoshy
08-12-2005, 11:53 AM
Okayy.. If it all confirmed and evidence is 100% true... Who was she screwing? A stranger or a friend? This makes a difference. If the dirt is within the community, we'd have to shoot her and the guy, if its a stranger, we simply punish her :D. lol.. I rather not think about this..
WOW!!! lol nice.......What kind of punishment would it be? lol :winking72 :fight46:

Executive
08-12-2005, 12:02 PM
WOW!!! lol nice.......What kind of punishment would it be? lol :winking72 :fight46:

Are we into violence darling :D? I don't know. I hope I never have to face this situation just as with a homosexual child..

Shoshy
08-12-2005, 12:04 PM
Are we into violence darling :D? I don't know. I hope I never have to face this situation just as with a homosexual child..
No darling, we are not into violence (force does not work well, remember?).I just want to know what kind of punishements can be used.....:)

eye_squared_i
08-12-2005, 12:39 PM
Situation: You are married and have children with your spouse. You receive a phone call, "your husband/wife is cheating on you!!!" and that person hangs up on you.
What is your next step?

The phone call has been confirmed with the evidence...At this point you are 100% sure that your spouse cheated on you.

What will you you?


There isn't much to do but to stay with my husband because I don't believe in divorce.

I am sure things will never be the same after that but if I promised my husband at our wedding night that I will be with him till death so be it!....I would have to learn to please him as we continue to grow old together...

Of course if he was still my bf or a fiancee, well then that's a different story...that's the day I turn around and say goodbye!

Executive
08-12-2005, 12:42 PM
There isn't much to do but to stay with my husband because I don't believe in divorce.

I am sure things will never be the same after that but if I promised my husband at our wedding night that I will be with him till death so be it!....I would have to learn to please him as we continue to grow old together...

Of course if he was still my bf or a fiancee, well then that's a different story...that's the day I turn around and say goodbye!

What if he caught you cheating? What how would you expect him to react?

Jewishguy
08-12-2005, 12:42 PM
There isn't much to do but to stay with my husband because I don't believe in divorce.

I am sure things will never be the same after that but if I promised my husband at our wedding night that I will be with him till death so be it!....I would have to learn to please him as we continue to grow old together...

Of course if he was still my bf or a fiancee, well then that's a different story...that's the day I turn around and say goodbye!


ti takakaya dobraya lol

eye_squared_i
08-12-2005, 01:13 PM
What if he caught you cheating? What how would you expect him to react?


I wouldn't cheat! So in that case I have no answer for you.

One of the virtues "loyalty"!...live it, love it, learn it!

eye_squared_i
08-12-2005, 01:15 PM
ti takakaya dobraya lol



yeah I would have to be if i have to surrounded by a cynical world as this!

Jewishguy
08-12-2005, 01:21 PM
yeah I would have to be if i have to surrounded by a cynical world as this!

hey u wanna ask me out lol

eye_squared_i
08-12-2005, 01:25 PM
hey u wanna ask me out lol


You know I'd consider it but fortunatly I am taken!

Jewishguy
08-12-2005, 01:27 PM
You know I'd consider it but fortunatly I am taken!


how dare u to be taken?:)

Executive
08-12-2005, 01:35 PM
You know I'd consider it but fortunatly I am taken!

don't worry JG, I'm sure she'll be available soon. Individuals such as this, don't commit too long to anyone...

eye_squared_i
08-12-2005, 01:36 PM
don't worry JG, I'm sure she'll be available soon. Individuals such as this, don't commit too long to anyone...

You know talk for youself!

Jewishguy
08-12-2005, 01:37 PM
You know talk for youself!


Rebyata davaite zhit' druzhno :conf:

Shoshy
08-12-2005, 01:38 PM
Guys!!!!! Chill!!!! This is a place for civilized discussions and not a field for personal battles.....Someone please take the initiative and stop these arguments!!!!

eye_squared_i
08-12-2005, 01:41 PM
Conversation closed!

Jewishguy
08-12-2005, 01:43 PM
Guys!!!!! Chill!!!! This is a place for civilized discussions and not a field for personal battles.....Someone please take the initiative and stop these arguments!!!!

:happy05:

FriendlyPA
08-12-2005, 01:43 PM
Conversation closed!

Wo hooo!!! Molodzy Shoshy i eye_squared_i!!!

Jewishguy
08-12-2005, 01:43 PM
:conf: Wo hooo!!! Molodzy Shoshy i eye_squared_i!!!

Executive
08-12-2005, 02:05 PM
Conversation closed!

:D I can't believe I got to you! Such a shame you closed the conversation, I had so much more I wanted to express..

Shoshy
08-12-2005, 02:06 PM
Wo hooo!!! Molodzy Shoshy i eye_squared_i!!!
I do not like it when people argue.....it makes me sad ..... :sad17: :sad17: :sad17:

Jewishguy
08-12-2005, 02:52 PM
I do not like it when people argue.....it makes me sad ..... :sad17: :sad17: :sad17:
Маpья Ивановна долго pассказывает на уpоке о цели жизни и пpедназначении
человека, а потом спpашивает:
- Дети, что бы вы хотели, чтобы люди сказали о вас на ваших похоpонах? Пете
чка:
- Я бы хотел, чтобы люди сказали, что я был великолепным доктоpом, что я
спас столько людей и вылечил столько детей.
- Молодец, Петечка, а ты Манечка?
Манечка:
- А я хотела бы, чтобы они сказали, что я была замечательной женой, матеpью
и бабушкой, что меня так все любили.
- Молодец, Манечка. Hу, Вовочка, а ты чтобы хотел услышать на своих
похоpонах?
- Смотpите! Он шевелится!!!

:conf:

ilya
08-12-2005, 03:14 PM
Spank her. Next time she would not do it.

eye_squared_i
08-13-2005, 08:19 PM
Маpья Ивановна долго pассказывает на уpоке о цели жизни и пpедназначении
человека, а потом спpашивает:
- Дети, что бы вы хотели, чтобы люди сказали о вас на ваших похоpонах? Пете
чка:
- Я бы хотел, чтобы люди сказали, что я был великолепным доктоpом, что я
спас столько людей и вылечил столько детей.
- Молодец, Петечка, а ты Манечка?
Манечка:
- А я хотела бы, чтобы они сказали, что я была замечательной женой, матеpью
и бабушкой, что меня так все любили.
- Молодец, Манечка. Hу, Вовочка, а ты чтобы хотел услышать на своих
похоpонах?
- Смотpите! Он шевелится!!!

:conf:

LOL that's cute~ I like your sence of humor

TheSpiritualOne
08-14-2005, 12:09 PM
Okay her point is, imagine you caught them in bed together going at it. Then what?
then that's not good!!! i don't know, it all depends on the situation.