View Full Version : Diaries: His vs. Hers


QueenofLilies
04-10-2005, 11:24 AM
His And Her Diary

Just goes to show how differently men and women look at things...

HER DIARY

Saturday night I thought he was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment. Conversation wasn't flowing so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed but he kept quiet and absent. I asked him what was wrong he said nothing. I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said it had nothing to do with me and not to worry. On the way home I told him that I loved him, he simply smiled and kept driving. I can't explain his behaviour; I don't know why he didn't say I love you too. When we got home I felt as if had lost him, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there and watched TV He seemed distant
and absent. Finally I decided to go to bed. About 10 minutes later he came to bed and to my surprise he responded to my caress and we made love, but I still felt that he was distracted and his thoughts where somewhere else. I decided that I could not take it anymore so I decided to confront him with the situation but he had fallen asleep. I started crying and cried until I too fell asleep. I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster.

HIS DIARY

Today the Mets lost--what else is new? I need a girl.

Jew4Life
04-11-2005, 11:50 PM
Guys liek to amke it sweet and short! :evilgr39:

Aragorn
04-12-2005, 12:21 AM
I will post what I wrote in my diary yesterday. "Work out for one hour. Read 30 pages in Finance. Sleep."
Girls, post some of your stuff from a diary.

Tssipa
04-12-2005, 01:11 AM
you guys should learn from this. There are so many similar stories and every time everyone seems to miss the point. A female needs attention. A guy must not keep his thoughts to himself because a female is driving herself insane trying to figure out what's on his mind. And i think any guy who loves his girl should not let this happen to her.

OceanofMemories
04-12-2005, 01:22 AM
so y dont girls just accept it? wen a guy says nothing is wrong, that means nothing is wrong. and wen a guy is quiet, he just has nothing to say. y does silence scare girls so much?

Tssipa
04-12-2005, 01:26 AM
so y dont girls just accept it? wen a guy says nothing is wrong, that means nothing is wrong. and wen a guy is quiet, he just has nothing to say. y does silence scare girls so much?

Do you really think it is so?
Do you really think that men don't think as much as women do, when it comes to relationships?
And do you really think tht it is only girls that are uncomfortable with silence?

QueenofLilies
04-12-2005, 07:30 AM
I will post what I wrote in my diary yesterday. "Work out for one hour. Read 30 pages in Finance. Sleep."
Girls, post some of your stuff from a diary.


Went to school. Came home and cleaned up. Studied for a while. Went to gym. Did some accounting. Prepared for work for tomorrow :happy25:

Tssipa
04-12-2005, 01:28 PM
Went to school. Came home and cleaned up. Studied for a while. Went to gym. Did some accounting. Prepared for work for tomorrow :happy25:

wow, no deep processing? No thinking about your life or people in it?
What you wrote is only that what can be observed, obviously there is much more than that going on in your life. Look deeper, look inside your head and then write about your process and not the end result. Therefore, these two examples are not really what one would usually write in a diary. This seems more like a schedule not a diary.

OceanofMemories
04-12-2005, 10:29 PM
Do you really think it is so?
Do you really think that men don't think as much as women do, when it comes to relationships?
And do you really think tht it is only girls that are uncomfortable with silence?


i guess it depends on wat kind of guy he is.
i think they think, but i think they c it as it is. girls make a million and one assumptions and come up with these ideas that dont even seem to be possible.

being uncomfortable with silence = i guess that also depends on person.

crispy
04-12-2005, 11:30 PM
Went to school. Came home and cleaned up. Studied for a while. Went to gym. Did some accounting. Prepared for work for tomorrow :happy25:
you're probably the only girl in the family

QueenofLilies
04-12-2005, 11:37 PM
you're probably the only girl in the family
no i am not. I am the oldest of four.
I just have a change of lifestyle now because of college and work. I don't include a lot of things because it is personal, However, if you really want to know, I have to know you better, an d I love meeting new people and making friends. Truly, I am very friendly :)

crispy
04-12-2005, 11:51 PM
no i am not. I am the oldest of four.
I just have a change of lifestyle now because of college and work. I don't include a lot of things because it is personal, However, if you really want to know, I have to know you better, an d I love meeting new people and making friends. Truly, I am very friendly :)
that's cool:)