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Natasha
03-10-2005, 12:16 PM
What would you do if you thought your bf/gf/fiance/spouse had feelings for another person?

lenchiknyc
03-10-2005, 06:39 PM
What would you do if you thought your bf/gf/fiance/spouse had feelings for another person?

I would castrate him!!! lol

Well, maybe just let him go, to be with the person that he really loves. He would be no use to me, if he doesn't love me!!!! Who am I to stand in a way of his happiness, even if I love him?!

OlorinGandalf
03-10-2005, 06:41 PM
I would castrate him!!! lol

Well, maybe just let him go, to be with the person that he really loves. He would be no use to me, if he doesn't love me!!!! Who am I to stand in a way of his happiness, even if I love him?!

oh i see, u will send him off castrated!!! what use is he in that state... :knockflow

lenchiknyc
03-10-2005, 06:44 PM
oh i see, u will send him off castrated!!! what use is he in that state... :knockflow

Well, that was the point!!! What do you think? If I am sending him to the other woman, you actually think that I am gonna send him there not damaged? :p

OlorinGandalf
03-10-2005, 07:05 PM
What would you do if you thought your bf/gf/fiance/spouse had feelings for another person?

Make him concentrate on urself...use ur g-d given seductive power :cerenad:

OlorinGandalf
03-10-2005, 07:07 PM
Well, that was the point!!! What do you think? If I am sending him to the other woman, you actually think that I am gonna send him there not damaged? :p

Do you always damage the goods before you return them in the store? Vandalism kakoy-to
:conf:

lenchiknyc
03-10-2005, 07:19 PM
Do you always damage the goods before you return them in the store? Vandalism kakoy-to
:conf:

Who told you that they were goods? There was nothing good about them!!!! lol

TheGreatOne
03-10-2005, 07:56 PM
Who told you that they were goods? There was nothing good about them!!!! lol

why do you wanna damage them then?

Natasha
03-10-2005, 08:34 PM
Make him concentrate on urself...use ur g-d given seductive power :cerenad:


Olorin, I didn't say I had this problem. But what would YOU do (if you G-d forbid had this problem)?

OlorinGandalf
03-11-2005, 01:30 AM
Olorin, I didn't say I had this problem. But what would YOU do (if you G-d forbid had this problem)?

it is problem with a simple solution...i simply open the box where i keep my charm... :cerenad:

Aragorn
03-13-2005, 06:25 PM
Who told you that they were goods? There was nothing good about them!!!! lol

Why would you have a boyfriend in a first place who had "nothing good in them." If before you setteled for something that is not good then why not continue with those "no goodies?"

HandsomeHunk
03-16-2005, 11:01 PM
What would you do if you thought your bf/gf/fiance/spouse had feelings for another person?

I saw an episode of "Sex and the City" where one of the characters (Samantha) was faced with the same problem. A threesome did the trick and from then on the couple became the monogamist type. According to Jerry Springer sometimes it better to open new doors in order to preserve the old traditional values.

Tssipa
03-17-2005, 01:44 AM
What would you do if you thought your bf/gf/fiance/spouse had feelings for another person?

i have a poem that i wrote few years ago, I think it's perfect for the subject


*True love*

If you are willing to give
Without hoping to take
If you can live and forgive
With honest heart, for other's sake

If you can love and let go
And wait until its return
Though you have searched for it so
You let it loose without concern

If when refused by someone
You do not turn into a beast
But just accept that it's done
And do not hurt them the least

When after trying your best
You can relax and just wait
May be the one you request
Will be delivered by fate.

Natasha
03-17-2005, 12:22 PM
i have a poem that i wrote few years ago, I think it's perfect for the subject


*True love*

If you are willing to give
Without hoping to take
If you can live and forgive
With honest heart, for other's sake

If you can love and let go
And wait until its return
Though you have searched for it so
You let it loose without concern

If when refused by someone
You do not turn into a beast
But just accept that it's done
And do not hurt them the least

When after trying your best
You can relax and just wait
May be the one you request
Will be delivered by fate.

This is a beautiful poem. I also think that it is best to let him/her go in search of true happiness and love. But what if this is the case between a married couple? Is letting him/her go the best solution then too? Isn't marriage sacred? Shouldn't people put more heart into it and try harder and not give up? What do you do when your spouse has feelings for someone else?

HandsomeHunk
03-17-2005, 08:27 PM
This is a beautiful poem. I also think that it is best to let him/her go in search of true happiness and love. But what if this is the case between a married couple? Is letting him/her go the best solution then too? Isn't marriage sacred? Shouldn't people put more heart into it and try harder and not give up? What do you do when your spouse has feelings for someone else?

It depends on the situation. If your spouse has feelings for you as well then maybe it would be best to sit down and talk out this dilemma.

QueenofLilies
03-20-2005, 05:44 PM
It depends on the situation. If your spouse has feelings for you as well then maybe it would be best to sit down and talk out this dilemma.


I agree with you HandsomeHunk.a discussion has always opted to get to the best of any situation