Is it a requirement for Bukharian girls to know how to cook?

It's not, but it should be. :sign63: Parents of girls like to make demands of guys, but God forbid if guys start making demands of them. Uh. Automatically, they are considered exploitative and bad. :mad:

Definately! :fight56:

Definately! :fight56:


ochee Bukharoree nahz mebeenee chi? :tongue21:

Is it a requirement for Bukharian girls to know how to cook?

Yes it is. At least for me she must be able to cook. If she doesn't know how to cook now, she must start learning it. :evilgr39:

It's not, but it should be. :sign63: Parents of girls like to make demands of guys, but God forbid if guys start making demands of them. Uh. Automatically, they are considered exploitative and bad. :mad:


Not completely true. Everyone has certain things they want in their future spouse. I personally know some couples where the wife can't cook at all...but they are living happily.

Not completely true. Everyone has certain things they want in their future spouse. I personally know some couples where the wife can't cook at all...but they are living happily.
Not knowing how to cook is not a problem since it can be learned. The problem is with the attitude some girls adapt when they refuse to do so out of principle. They don't seem to appreciate the value of their hubbys eating home-made food. I think strong marriage is based on mutual dependencies and care and cooking is one way to do so. It's just that nowadays people are afraid of depending on the other for anything, preferring their personal freedom. As a result, marriages are not as strong as before.
Just like everything else, food satisfies both material(hunger) and spiritual(bonding with the spouse) needs. How does take-out food help your marriage besides satisfying your hunger? It just makes it easier for you to walk away from your spouse after a fight. :fight24:

Not knowing how to cook is not a problem since it can be learned. The problem is with the attitude some girls adapt when they refuse to do so out of principle. They don't seem to appreciate the value of their hubbys eating home-made food. I think strong marriage is based on mutual dependencies and care and cooking is one way to do so. It's just that nowadays people are afraid of depending on the other for anything, preferring their personal freedom. As a result, marriages are not as strong as before.
Just like everything else, food satisfies both material(hunger) and spiritual(bonding with the spouse) needs. How does take-out food help your marriage besides satisfying your hunger? It just makes it easier for you to walk away from your spouse after a fight. :fight24:



It is true that girls should do so out of principle...out of their own will and desire...and not solely intended to serve her spouse.

However, take-outs are sometimes useful in giving her a break! L0L...and a take-out once in a while is preferred by either party....don't u agree?
But, certainly, food does not label the "health" of a relationship. For example, if the woman cooks for her husband succulent Bukharian food every day and night...they might have a very hollow relationship...because this will provide her the postion of being a 24/7 housewife

However, take-outs are sometimes useful in giving her a break! L0L...and a take-out once in a while is preferred by either party....don't u agree?


I agree. I have nothing against occasional take outs as long as they don't become the norm. :bonk:

But, certainly, food does not label the "health" of a relationship. For example, if the woman cooks for her husband succulent Bukharian food every day and night...they might have a very hollow relationship...because this will provide her the postion of being a 24/7 housewife
I didn't say food determines the health of the relationship. It's just one of the factors that helps it.

Well, you gave an example of the other extreme. You see the first one is not in the husband's benefit, the second one is not in the wife's. :sign63:

Not completely true. Everyone has certain things they want in their future spouse. I personally know some couples where the wife can't cook at all...but they are living happily.

I wonder who is happier in this type of marriage? The wife that is too lazy to cook, making an excuse that she is also working and saving the rest of the free time for sex, or the husband that can always make an excuse not to eat at home and be elsewhere satisfying his "hunger" at a restaurant with friends or girlfriends ?

I wonder who is happier in this type of marriage? The wife that is too lazy to cook, making an excuse that she is also working and saving the rest of the free time for sex, or the husband that can always make an excuse not to eat at home and be elsewhere satisfying his "hunger" at a restaurant with friends or girlfriends ?


Can u answer your own question? :)

I think SOF is onto something here.

I know that every girl/woman would be touched if her boyfriend/fiance/husband gave her a flower just because... He does not have to do this but if he does she will find a way to let him know that she appreciates his attention. It just happens that "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach". So why not prepare dinner for him so that he knows he is coming home to someone who is waiting for him? It can't hurt. Besides if a girl loves her boyfriend/fiance/husband it does not seem like it is a big to do to prepare a hot meal for him so he can sit with her and enjoy it.

Here is a question for you: Is it a requirement for guys to take girls out to dinner during the course of their dating period? Your automatic response may be that it is not but don't you think that it may seem odd if you date a guy for a period of 6 months and you have not been to dinner even once? He does not have to take you to dinner, necessarily, but I think most normal individuals expect it. So I find nothing wrong with a husband expecting his wife to cook dinner for him.

I think SOF is onto something here.

I know that every girl/woman would be touched if her boyfriend/fiance/husband gave her a flower just because... He does not have to do this but if he does she will find a way to let him know that she appreciates his attention. It just happens that "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach". So why not prepare dinner for him so that he knows he is coming home to someone who is waiting for him? It can't hurt. Besides if a girl loves her boyfriend/fiance/husband it does not seem like it is a big to do to prepare a hot meal for him so he can sit with her and enjoy it.

Here is a question for you: Is it a requirement for guys to take girls out to dinner during the course of their dating period? Your automatic response may be that it is not but don't you think that it may seem odd if you date a guy for a period of 6 months and you have not been to dinner even once? He does not have to take you to dinner, necessarily, but I think most normal individuals expect it. So I find nothing wrong with a husband expecting his wife to cook dinner for him.

Nothing else to add, but the applause :happy65: :happy65: :happy65:

Very well said Natasha

Is it a requirement for Bukharian girls to know how to cook?
Yes it is. When a husband comes home from work very tired he needs some food to restore his depleted energy. If you want your husband to perform good in bed then stuff him up that he can work like a machine. If you don't feed him he will just fall asleep on you. Men are like cars. Give him fuel and he will "drive." However you should know what type of food to give him for your own benefit. Research studies have shown that if a man eats red meat or garlic before sex than his sperm will not smell that good. But if you feed him strawberries and fruits after a good meal than "it" will taste like chicken. So keep that in mind. You do have to know how to cook and what to serve your husband.

Is it a requirement for Bukharian girls to know how to cook?


no it's not a requirement. Before it used to be taken for granted, NOW it is a bonus.
:happy65:

Yes it is. When a husband comes home from work very tired he needs some food to restore his depleted energy. If you want your husband to perform good in bed then stuff him up that he can work like a machine. If you don't feed him he will just fall asleep on you. Men are like cars. Give him fuel and he will "drive." However you should know what type of food to give him for your own benefit. Research studies have shown that if a man eats red meat or garlic before sex than his sperm will not smell that good. But if you feed him strawberries and fruits after a good meal than "it" will taste like chicken. So keep that in mind. You do have to know how to cook and what to serve your husband.

Excuse me sir. when a husband comes from work, wife will do the same. SO what is your point? And as men like to boast that they are the "stronger" sex that only means that after a long day of work(for both of them) he will have more strength to cook something for them. Tak chto, nakidivai fartuk i na kuhnu.:fight58:

ochee Bukharoree nahz mebeenee chi? :tongue21:
gap insin nerafsode agar man oshkhoyi Yekhudiyoni bukhoriya nagz mebina yoki ne'... Gap onki dukhtari royi khona donistanash darkormi chekhel sozu pazkardan yoki ne'? :happy25:

Can u answer your own question? :)
I would guess the answer would be: Ishkami ser' quvati...

I would guess the answere would be: Ishkami ser' quvati...


I agree :)

Yes it is. When a husband comes home from work very tired he needs some food to restore his depleted energy. If you want your husband to perform good in bed then stuff him up that he can work like a machine. If you don't feed him he will just fall asleep on you. Men are like cars. Give him fuel and he will "drive." However you should know what type of food to give him for your own benefit. Research studies have shown that if a man eats red meat or garlic before sex than his sperm will not smell that good. But if you feed him strawberries and fruits after a good meal than "it" will taste like chicken. So keep that in mind. You do have to know how to cook and what to serve your husband.


Who said anything about "tast[ing]"? Get your mind out of the gutter! :bonk:

Excuse me sir. when a husband comes from work, wife will do the same. SO what is your point? And as men like to boast that they are the "stronger" sex that only means that after a long day of work(for both of them) he will have more strength to cook something for them. Tak chto, nakidivai fartuk i na kuhnu.:fight58:
Zabastovka!!!!...Boycott!!!!...No sex for you the whole week. :fight56: