Slihal chto zhenix ne hodit s nevestoi svoei pokupat' ei svadebnoe plat'ye. Tak li eto ili net? Esli tak, to pochemu emu zapreshaetsa eto (esli zapreshaetsa voobshe)?

idn if the future husband goes and buys the dress for his future wife but i no he pays for it

its considered bad luck to see your future wife in a wedding dress before the actual wedding. why i dont know

Slihal chto zhenix ne hodit s nevestoi svoei pokupat' ei svadebnoe plat'ye. Tak li eto ili net? Esli tak, to pochemu emu zapreshaetsa eto (esli zapreshaetsa voobshe)?

po nashemu bukharskomy obichiyu zhenix dolzhen kupit' svadebnoe plat'ye on mozhet poiti snei vibirat i vidit' plat'ye na nei.
no posle pokupki etoi plat'ye zhenih ne dolzhen videt eto plat'ye na neveste do svad'bi. :party39:

i think she should go shopping with her own mother or some girlfriends who will be completely honest with her about how she looks. as long as the dress is tzniut, i think it would be nice if the guy never saw it at all and then is surprised on the wedding day.

speaking of wedding dresses, i recently saw a picture of a very beautiful one that i always pictured in my head but never saw on paper until then.

WHY IT BECAME "BAD LUCK" FOR THE GROOM TO SEE BRIDE BEFORE THE CEREMONY
Until relatively recently, brides were considered the property of their father. Their futures and husbands were arranged without their consent. The marriage of an unattractive woman was often arranged with a prospective groom from another town without either of them having ever seen their prospective spouse. In more than one instance, when the groom saw his future wife, usually dressed in white, for the first time on the day of the wedding, he changed his mind and left the bride at the altar. To prevent this from happening, it became "bad luck" for the groom to see the bride on the day of the wedding prior to the ceremony.

I got it from Yahoo answers.

I wouldn't go wedding dress shopping with my future monster in law ;)

and I wouldnt want my future husband to see the dress or me in it until the day of the wedding..



I think the bride should go shopping for a dress with her best friend/ made of honor and or mother.
BUt thats just my opinion..

I wouldn't go wedding dress shopping with my future monster in law ;)

and I wouldnt want my future husband to see the dress or me in it until the day of the wedding..



I think the bride should go shopping for a dress with her best friend/ made of honor and or mother.
BUt thats just my opinion..


lol!...I can see why you wouldnt want her to go with u :tongue12:

Whoever is paying for it goes with her..

lol!...I can see why you wouldnt want her to go with u :tongue12:

u have to be a woman to understand. :)

u have to be a woman to understand. :)

I am not a woman as of yet, but a young lady I am, last time I checked :party39: :tongue12:

I am not a woman as of yet, but a young lady I am, last time I checked :party39: :tongue12:


you want a cookie or somethin?:tongue12:

you want a cookie or somethin?:tongue12:

sure, watchu got? :)

People shouldn't believe in "luck" good or bad. Believe in G-d's blessing of your union (or whatever it may be).

I didn't want my at that time boyfriend to see my wedding dress before the wedding because I wanted him to be pleasantly surprised. However, I also wanted him to love the dress in which I would be married to him, so it was safer to allow him to pick out my dress with me. At least I knew that the day of the wedding he would love the way I looked.

My husband tells me now that he was still very pleasantly surprised when he saw me the day of the wedding. That day all the pieces of the wedding attire came together - the hair, nails, make-up, dress, shoes, tiara. It was nothing like trying on a dress before all the alterations. I was thrilled that he was still surprised.

I wouldn't go wedding dress shopping with my future monster in law ;)

and I wouldnt want my future husband to see the dress or me in it until the day of the wedding..



I think the bride should go shopping for a dress with her best friend/ made of honor and or mother.
BUt thats just my opinion..

Wow such an optimism about the marriage bliss in the circle of his relatives ... such preemptive hate towards svikrovka. And you girls then wonder what is up with us when we make jokes about our tyoshas.

Btw...as was pointed out that, by our tradition, groom is paying for the bride's dress, I believe he is very much entitled to see what he is buying, at least the dress itself after she already chose it and had a fitting.

On the same token, wouldn't the bride want to participate in the Tuxedo selection for the groom too? Her parents are paying for that after all ;)

Wow such an optimism about the marriage bliss in the circle of his relatives ... such preemptive hate towards svikrovka. And you girls then wonder what is up with us when we make jokes about our tyoshas.

Btw...as was pointed out that, by our tradition, groom is paying for the bride's dress, I believe he is very much entitled to see what he is buying, at least the dress itself after she already chose it and had a fitting.

On the same token, wouldn't the bride want to participate in the Tuxedo selection for the groom too? Her parents are paying for that after all ;)

I was only kidding sugar! I don't have a mother in law to hate, and if I did have one I wouldnt hate her.

BTW I beat your score in Baloon park!~ Vot tebe!

Wow such an optimism about the marriage bliss in the circle of his relatives ... such preemptive hate towards svikrovka. And you girls then wonder what is up with us when we make jokes about our tyoshas.

Btw...as was pointed out that, by our tradition, groom is paying for the bride's dress, I believe he is very much entitled to see what he is buying, at least the dress itself after she already chose it and had a fitting.

On the same token, wouldn't the bride want to participate in the Tuxedo selection for the groom too? Her parents are paying for that after all ;)


I participated, hehe. That's why my hubby was absolutely breath taking at our wedding!!

you guys and girls crack me up. my fiance has not seen me wear the dress and does not whine or complain to see it untill the wedding. he camly gave me the money and said "take your girlfreinds and enjoy." I have shown him my prefferences and we are going shopping together for accessories. So its a matter of choice for everyone.

I participated, hehe. That's why my hubby was absolutely breath taking at our wedding!!

hehehe, good one nat!

Whoever is paying for it goes with her..

железная логика.

железная логика.

does that say zhileznaya logica??.. if it does, mind explaining wat u meant?

does that say zhileznaya logica??.. if it does, mind explaining wat u meant?

Actually,
IMHO, If a man should pay for it, then he should be spared the agony and endles hours of dealing with it.

~~>
S.J.

Actually,
IMHO, If a man should pay for it, then he should be spared the agony and endles hours of dealing with it.

~~>
S.J.

what's IMHO???

what's IMHO???

Adinachka, It means I am a Ho.
Just kidding :)

IMHO= In My Humble Opinion

~~>
S.J.

Adinachka, It means I am a Ho.
Just kidding :)

IMHO= In My Humble Opinion

~~>
S.J.

LOL..ok

does that say zhileznaya logica??.. if it does, mind explaining wat u meant?

no, I dont mind.
it means: "makes perfect sense"

no, I dont mind.
it means: "makes perfect sense"


kinda like the comment we use "common sense" in english..

no, I dont mind.
it means: "makes perfect sense"

thank u very much :):)

its considered bad luck to see your future wife in a wedding dress before the actual wedding. why i dont know

before I got married I did not know that it applies to Jewish people as well. I thought it was a Christian thing. So, I went hunting for a wedding gown with my finacee. Then my mom told me that apparently it's not a good sign for him to see the wedding gown before the wedding.

The only explanation I can think of, I guess, When he would see his future wife in the wedding gown, it will hit him that he is getting married. He might freak out and run away. hehehe Silly is it not?

The only explanation I can think of, I guess, When he would see his future wife in the wedding gown, it will hit him that he is getting married. He might freak out and run away. hehehe Silly is it not?

yeah someone already said that

before I got married I did not know that it applies to Jewish people as well. I thought it was a Christian thing. So, I went hunting for a wedding gown with my finacee. Then my mom told me that apparently it's not a good sign for him to see the wedding gown before the wedding.

The only explanation I can think of, I guess, When he would see his future wife in the wedding gown, it will hit him that he is getting married. He might freak out and run away. hehehe Silly is it not?

its a good explanation, and i am sure that it is the most proper one ..