As we all know a lot of people in out community getting divorce. I would say over 75%. The reasons for divorce sometimes don't even make sense. They just feel like it. And even if they have a reason, I think they can work on it.
I would like create an organization. The purpose of this organization would be how to safe marriage? What do you think?

As we all know a lot of people in out community getting divorce. I would say over 75%. The reasons for divorce sometimes don't even make sense. They just feel like it. And even if they have a reason, I think they can work on it.
I would like create an organization. The purpose of this organization would be how to safe marriage? What do you think?

well you were to *save marriages you have to be pretty good at public speaking, just as good as a salesmen. It is a good cause especaily there are'nt any subsidised or bukhraian organization dealing helping trough divorce, legal issues, and as how to approach it with Torah prespectives, and so on.

its a start you can probably make good money just like most of services business in this coutnry.

I am not looking to make money. You are missing a point.

I think it's a great idea. It all depends how you go about doing it. You should definitely speak to the rabbis of our community to get their advice and help.

What did you have in mind to do? Give lectures...do separate counseling??? I'd say you have to know human nature very well and be able to approach all types of people the correct way and know a whole lot of psychology.

As we all know a lot of people in out community getting divorce. I would say over 75%. The reasons for divorce sometimes don't even make sense. They just feel like it. And even if they have a reason, I think they can work on it.
I would like create an organization. The purpose of this organization would be how to safe marriage? What do you think?

75% ... this is way over the real numbers.

According to Bukharian Rabbinical console currently there is 35% of divorces in our Buharian Community. It’s lower than before, but still a huge issue!!!

There are plenty of "how to save marriage" counseling and advices, and places couples can go... However, there are few, if any, places for couples to go to before getting married and really understand each other. I think there should be more pre-marital counseling in our community. Many people get married for the wrong reasons and with the wrong ideas about married life, and this have to be discussed before getting married not afterwards.

Regards,
Reebi ben Dovid

Well, Bukharian Rabbinical console can say a lot. However, it is all politics. I knew a lot of people who live seperatly never went to get "GET" because they lost respect towards Rabbi because they are only there for a money. I think to get divorce should not cost $500. It should cost $100,000 from both side. Maybe then people will think before getting married.

Well, Bukharian Rabbinical console can say a lot. However, it is all politics. I knew a lot of people who live seperatly never went to get "GET" because they lost respect towards Rabbi because they are only there for a money. I think to get divorce should not cost $500. It should cost $100,000 from both side. Maybe then people will think before getting married.

this will never happen, because some of the reasons for marriage are citizenship, and youths who believe they have fallen in love but haven't, thus when everything gets cleared, hello divorce lawyers!