Hypothetical situation: Someone asks you out and you've seen them around before and you want to give it a chance. However, u find out that the person's family does not have such a good reputation.
Do u try it out anyway and dont pay attention to his family because he might not be like that? or do u think that he has to have some of it in him because he's from that family? or do u stay away because u dont want to be embarrassed or have anything to do with such ppl?

individual -- on na to i individual chto individualen. :)

family matters, but I think it's prudent to look at the individual.

Look at an example from the Torah: Isaac had 2 sons: Eisav (sp?) and Yaakov. They went separate ways.

Hypothetical situation: Someone asks you out and you've seen them around before and you want to give it a chance. However, u find out that the person's family does not have such a good reputation.
Do u try it out anyway and dont pay attention to his family because he might not be like that? or do u think that he has to have some of it in him because he's from that family? or do u stay away because u dont want to be embarrassed or have anything to do with such ppl?

btw, are you looking for an excuse to date him or an excuse not to date him? :)

"big difference". :)

Hypothetical situation: Someone asks you out and you've seen them around before and you want to give it a chance. However, u find out that the person's family does not have such a good reputation.
Do u try it out anyway and dont pay attention to his family because he might not be like that? or do u think that he has to have some of it in him because he's from that family? or do u stay away because u dont want to be embarrassed or have anything to do with such ppl?

Hypothetical situation: Someone asks you out and you've seen them around before and you want to give it a chance. However, u find out that the person's family does not have such a good reputation.
Do u try it out anyway and dont pay attention to his family because he might not be like that? or do u think that he has to have some of it in him because he's from that family? or do u stay away because u dont want to be embarrassed or have anything to do with such ppl?


The apple doesn't fall far from the tree...
Unless there's wind

I would say, teh persong should give it a try... :party36:

The apple doesn't fall far from the tree...
Unless there's wind

Yes, we have lots of wind currents here in New York. ;)

I f u r dating , that doesnt mean u r marrying the guy already. It's all about the couple...yes, to some degree family matters, but if all u r risking at the moment is a chance, then y not use it?

well, in my opinion dating is the beginning for any realtionship that leads to marriage eventually.(osobeno in our conservative society)
I think if the girl already knows that the guy who is asking her out is not coming from a good family for some reasons, she should not even go out with him at the first place.
Because i think the end result will be that the guy's family will cause problems for her in future....
so why drive crazy everyone around.
However, they can stay friends.......(ne imey 100 rubley a imey 100 druzey) :cool43:

Hypothetical situation: Someone asks you out and you've seen them around before and you want to give it a chance. However, u find out that the person's family does not have such a good reputation.
Do u try it out anyway and dont pay attention to his family because he might not be like that? or do u think that he has to have some of it in him because he's from that family? or do u stay away because u dont want to be embarrassed or have anything to do with such ppl?

I think it depends on the source of your new information. In my opinion the most legitemit (sp?) source would be your parents, just remember they never wish/want you bad.

I think it depends on the source of your new information. In my opinion the most legitemit (sp?) source would be your parents, just remember they never wish/want you bad.
That is right. They want a rich son in law. :sign58:

That is right. They want a rich son in law. :sign58:

kaneshna

kaneshna
I guess it's good to say "good bye!" in taht case :scared15: ;)