I was recently having a conversation with someone and he started talking about having a second wife. What I found to be disturbing is that he never even had a first one!!!
Now, for my question, what does a guy consider to be his second wife?

I was recently having a conversation with someone and he started talking about having a second wife. What I found to be disturbing is that he never even had a first one!!!
Now, for my question, what does a guy consider to be his second wife?

You see, the reason for that is in case you cannot find all the qualities you seek in a single individual. So the guy simply marries multiple wives, each having a lot of a certain quality. For example:

Brainy Wife (intelligent, knowledgable)
Beauty Wife (trophy)
Philosophical Wife (spiritual)

:)

You see, the reason for that is in case you cannot find all the qualities you seek in a single individual. So the guy simply marries multiple wives, each having a lot of a certain quality. For example:

Brainy Wife (intelligent, knowledgable)
Beauty Wife (trophy)
Philosophical Wife (spiritual)

:)

Brainy Wife (intelligent, knowledgable) ...I would classify this one more like a GUIDE ... a compas
Beauty Wife (trophy) = a mannequin for display
Philosophical Wife (spiritual) ...hmmm...а такие тоже бывают? I hope this one is not bald :jump20:

noooo, he wasnt talking about marrying multiple wives. he was talking about marrying a second wife (without the first ever being there) :) !

I think I know what you mean Homer, lol.
Tak, the definition of a wife is much more permanent and binding. This involves many resposibilities and commitments. However, the term second wife, I am not sure if that is a universally accepted term, this term implies a woman who may embody a real wife's qualificationws to a certain extent. In other words, she may live with her "husband", cook for him,etc, however, at any time, he may break up with her...or formally speaking, "divorce" her.

I think I know what you mean Homer, lol.
Tak, the definition of a wife is much more permanent and binding. This involves many resposibilities and commitments. However, the term second wife, I am not sure if that is a universally accepted term, this term implies a woman who may embody a real wife's qualificationws to a certain extent. In other words, she may live with her "husband", cook for him,etc, however, at any time, he may break up with her...or formally speaking, "divorce" her.


hmmmm......and do we congratulate someone who gets this second wife?

hmmmm......and do we congratulate someone who gets this second wife?


You all lost me here.. Perhaps your question should be phrased more appropriately? What was the purpose of the initial question?
Hopefully the 2nd wife won't be as bad as the first one.. Otherwise there will be a 3rd and a 4th after that.. hehe

his first wife was his hand and the second would be his imaginary wife.

noooo, he wasnt talking about marrying multiple wives. he was talking about marrying a second wife (without the first ever being there) :) !
Meaning like not the first soul mate but the second? Or maybe he is upset he lost the first one he wanted to marry and now will settle for second best. I think his heart was broken.

Meaning like not the first soul mate but the second? Or maybe he is upset he lost the first one he wanted to marry and now will settle for second best. I think his heart was broken.


i think ur reading waaaaaaay too much into it. maybe u should be a psychiatrist.

his first wife was his hand and the second would be his imaginary wife.


explain please.

I was recently having a conversation with someone and he started talking about having a second wife. What I found to be disturbing is that he never even had a first one!!!
Now, for my question, what does a guy consider to be his second wife?

eto nazivaetsya, wishful thinking. Mechat' ne ploho, ploho ne mechat'.

but on a serious note, what is his background, culture? What are his values? Was he serious or simply may be pulling your strings :D heheh as many gentlemen love to do to females.

his first wife was his hand and the second would be his imaginary wife.



looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooll OMG, I almost fell of my chair.:happy08: :happy32:

eto nazivaetsya, wishful thinking. Mechat' ne ploho, ploho ne mechat'.

but on a serious note, what is his background, culture? What are his values? Was he serious or simply may be pulling your strings :D heheh as many gentlemen love to do to females.


lol...he's a bukharian, just like the rest of us.
he was kidding around but i still didnt get wat he meant by that. when i asked him to explain, i think he tried, but im kinda slow so maybe thats y i didnt get it.

i think ur reading waaaaaaay too much into it. maybe u should be a psychiatrist.
lol, just being a girl, as u say!

okay everyone, i made a mistake. just go back to the initial question and put second wife in quotes, like that ------> "second wife"

Now try to answer that question. :)

okay everyone, i made a mistake. just go back to the initial question and put second wife in quotes, like that ------> "second wife"

Now try to answer that question. :)
I would still answer mine in the same way :happy05:

hmmmm......is there no other way for me to get the answer to this question?

it turns out that a guy's "second wife" is a car :)

everyone keep that in mind for future references

it turns out that a guy's "second wife" is a car :)

everyone keep that in mind for future references ahahahah, so many thoughts and it appears that the answer is so simple. lol

it turns out that a guy's "second wife" is a car :)

everyone keep that in mind for future references

It's a good thing that he does not think of his car as his "first wife".